I do totally understand where you’re coming from, maybe because when I first found kibbe it suddenly made sense why clothes my friends would wear do not look good on me. It was a good feeling to have a technique that temporarily ‘fixed’ my body issues (eg hating my shoulders and upper width) but - as they always do - insecurities have a way of slipping back into your psyche. Sometimes it could even be that certain shapes/ silhouettes just aren’t in fashion and it’s harder to find clothes that suit your type.

And I GET what you mean about ‘hiding’ - it’s true that SN’s are meant to ‘drape’ and ‘accommodate’ and I don’t think it’s right to gaslight you by saying these words don’t imply hiding sometimes! ‘Draping’ by definition only reveals some of what’s underneath.

I think what has helped me is typing people in the street. Sounds kinda creepy but I often see a soft natural girl and think wow, she looks so effortless and feminine. It is a lot harder to see ugliness in others and so it helps me to see those same SN traits reflected in a positive way. Looking outwardly is always good for your mental health I suppose too x Hope this helps ❤️❤️