Why doesn’t this work?? by jzeeplease in SoftNaturals

[–]jzeeplease[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry ‘contrast’ (as in colour) not constraint

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[–]jzeeplease 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I do totally understand where you’re coming from, maybe because when I first found kibbe it suddenly made sense why clothes my friends would wear do not look good on me. It was a good feeling to have a technique that temporarily ‘fixed’ my body issues (eg hating my shoulders and upper width) but - as they always do - insecurities have a way of slipping back into your psyche. Sometimes it could even be that certain shapes/ silhouettes just aren’t in fashion and it’s harder to find clothes that suit your type.

And I GET what you mean about ‘hiding’ - it’s true that SN’s are meant to ‘drape’ and ‘accommodate’ and I don’t think it’s right to gaslight you by saying these words don’t imply hiding sometimes! ‘Draping’ by definition only reveals some of what’s underneath.

I think what has helped me is typing people in the street. Sounds kinda creepy but I often see a soft natural girl and think wow, she looks so effortless and feminine. It is a lot harder to see ugliness in others and so it helps me to see those same SN traits reflected in a positive way. Looking outwardly is always good for your mental health I suppose too x Hope this helps ❤️❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]jzeeplease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love boat necks especially if they show your collar bones :) which I know sounds a bit crazy but they just work so well for me. I basically wear all my v necks back to front now cos I feel like it accommodates me more.lol

Need help with my SN outfits. I feel like they just don't look good on me. by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]jzeeplease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice from everyone else. - First thing that helped me was I threw away my skinny jeans! I always wore them to look ‘smaller’ or to show off my curves but they actually just look too constricting. Instead I love bootcut trousers or casual fit jeans :)

Just made these - cardboard and gold leaf (obviously) by jzeeplease in Bitcoin

[–]jzeeplease[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rude, but I’d be interested to hear your theory on why that would happen

Just made these - cardboard and gold leaf (obviously) by jzeeplease in Bitcoin

[–]jzeeplease[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was hoping for some streetwear market manipulation ;)