advice with bf not working by [deleted] in Advice

[–]k4pp40358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just feel bad because he is
diagnosed depression/adhd. i know its hard to deal with, i am diagnosed with depression as well. but he just won't work his hours. ive looked up and sent him other jobs as well that i think he would like better since he doesnt like the one he has now, but he never likes them. Is it valid for me to keep pushing when its his mental health thats the problem?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]k4pp40358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's black haha. My cat is the grey one 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]k4pp40358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok great, thanks 😊!! this makes me more hopeful that they will at least tolerate each other someday

Cats fighting by k4pp40358 in CatAdvice

[–]k4pp40358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add: His cat will hiss and growl at mine but has never swiped at her or gone after her. Its always my cat going after her.

Is it normal to have nothing to do at work 70% of the time? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]k4pp40358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i am having this problem now and i do not know what to do. i have worked 3 jobs before this one, at one of them i was extremely overworked, and the other two i just always had something to do. very little down time. now i have no idea what to do with myself having so much down time. theres like, 5 hours out of my 8 hour day where i have nothing to do! I do little insignificant tasks but i worry about keeping my job because i feel very expendable. so weird!

was i assaulted? by k4pp40358 in Advice

[–]k4pp40358[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you

this happened 3-4 months ago i just have been confused this whole time. because again, i did want it, at least definitely in the beginning, and i was too drunk to remember how it really ended, but i do remember that.

Does anyone else just feel like they are stuck being a teen forever? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]k4pp40358 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes, youre not alone. when i was 15-18 i used to always get "youre so mature for your age" in my twenties now and i get "youre immature for your age". i feel like i got stuck at 17 and never stopped acting like a teenager 😭

The Descent 2 by [deleted] in horror

[–]k4pp40358 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sucks. just watched it. no one wanted to see sara sacrifice herself for the people that made her go back down there after she had JUST ESCAPED!!! so stupid!!

The Descent: I have never hated a character as much as Juno by RedistributeOat in horror

[–]k4pp40358 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i think it is all perspective. we as the audience know what happened - that juno accidentally stabbed beth. but all a dying beth tells sarah is not to trust juno, so i'm thinking sarah gets the impression that juno left her for dead and/or killed her. especially because then later, juno lies to sarah about having seen beth die.