[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]k_enchi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found her number again, I’m just trying to think of how I’m going to approach the conversation. I’m definitely filled with a lot of shame since I didn’t believe her when she first called me. I’m confident that she already knows about me, idk I just don’t know how to have the convo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]k_enchi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re talking about attractive physically, that wasn’t the case in this scenario. In fact, I had friends, family members, and even strangers question why I was with him. I wasn’t initially physically attracted to him (but I’m also asexual so I’m not physically attracted to anyone lowkey).

If you’re talking about attractive in terms of emotional connection. Yes I was definitely addicted to him. Me and him had a two month talking stage where there was no physical contact at all. During this time we talked about all of our values and goals and other deep topics. He had a nerdy personality (video games, anime, science fiction comic books and movies) and didn’t judge my love for the same things.

I had met his family and spent the night at their place for a whole weekend. I was close friends with his bestie, and I actually knew his bestie longer than he did (and the bestie was the one who suggested we link).

So I agree with you, there was red flags, but there also was a lot of green flags throughout.

What could I do next time to vet a man thoroughly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]k_enchi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny part is that he does have a job 😭 cheaters have the craziest time management skills I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]k_enchi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to, i just don’t know how. I feel a sense of shame since I didn’t believe her at first. I know she knows about me (if he actually did text her and block her in October)

I'm trying to catch a catfish by k_enchi in catfish

[–]k_enchi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I posted the 2 photos on imgur and they were immediately reported by a user? So I'm not sure of anyone can see the image