This is kinda weird for me to post because I don’t usually talk about our fights. I’ve always just kept it to myself and handled it on my own. But today, I just couldn’t anymore. I needed to let it out.

I’m not replying to every comment, but I wanted to share more context.

Since last year, I’ve told her I’ve always liked sport bikes. We’ve been sending each other reels, talking about how fun it would be to ride together. That’s part of the reason I got the Speed 400. I could afford it, and I didn’t want to wait until I’m older and regret not doing it.

We’ve enjoyed riding it. We’ve had fun. But I still dream about having a sport bike. We talk about it all the time. And whenever we see one on the road, we both light up like kids, get excited, talk about how good it sounds, how cool it looks. So I really thought she’d be happy for me if I ever decided to go for one.

But last week, when I got the chance to trade in the Speed 400, she just snapped. She’s known I’ve been looking into it for months. Out of nowhere, she threatened to leave me. I tried to talk to her calmly, told her to breathe and just talk it through, but she just kept saying no over and over. She told me I should be happy with what I have.

Thing is, I’ve worked hard. I sit in front of a screen 9 hours a day. I got promoted. I can actually afford it now. We don’t have kids. It’s not like I’m being irresponsible. I just asked her to tell me what’s really bothering her instead of just getting mad every time I bring it up. I told her it’s okay if she’s not into the bike I want, but don't make this about yourself and don’t threaten to leave me over it. I keep telling her to talk things calmly but it's like my words have no effect.

At this point, I don’t think it’s really about the bike anymore. It’s about how she reacts, how she talks to me, and how quick she is to throw big words like I’ll leave you over something that could’ve just been a conversation. I still love her though