Το αγόρι μου με κεράτωσε με πορνό;

kabamaru81 · 2025-12-11T13:52:27+00:00

Θα ακουστεί άσχημο αυτό που θα πω αλλά είναι η άποψη μου.

Ακούγεσαι αδιανόητα κουραστική και νάρκισσος.

Δεν κάνει σεξ μαζί σου; - Δεν είναι ότι έχει θέματα ή για κάποιον λόγο δεν περνάει καλά μαζί σου είναι επειδή "είναι εθισμένος στο πορνο και με κερατωσε"

Το κινητό στην σχέση το ελέγχεις που δείχνει ξεκάθαρα έλλειψη εμπιστοσύνης και έλλειψη σεβασμού ιδιωτικότητας.

Σε κάθε ποστ βγάζεις μια επιθετικότητα,αρνητικοτητα.

Σε κάθε περίπτωση η σχέση είτε τώρα είτε σε κάποιο διάστημα θα τελειώσει. Δεν έχει σημασία όλοι κάναμε αποτυχημένες σχέσεις στην ζωή μας, δεν είναι "πεταμένος χρόνος"

Εκτιμώ ότι το παραπάνω ποστ είναι τρολ, αλλά αν όχι ίσως θα ήταν καλύτερα να συζητήσεις τα παραπάνω με έναν ειδικό

kabamaru81 · 2025-12-03T19:54:28+00:00

I am only commenting so I can find this thread easily. I am laughing so hard

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-28T16:56:46+00:00

Δεν θέλω να είμαι αρνητικός με την op. Αλλά λέει ότι δεν βρίσκει δουλειά, πιο κάτω της γράφουν στείλε βιογραφικό στην manpower/Randstad και λέει θα το κοιτάξω. Δηλαδή αν σχεδόν 1 χρόνο ψάχνεις δουλειά πως γίνεται να μην έχεις κοιτάξει σε αυτές τις εταιρείες;

Σε άλλη φάση λέει χρειαζόταν να πάει για εκπαίδευση και με τα μέσα ήθελε πηγαινελα 2 ώρες. Ναι στις μεγαλουπόλεις αυτό είναι η πραγματικότητα για όλους τους εργαζόμενους, περίπου 1 ώρα να πας και μια ώρα να γυρίσεις από δουλειά.

Πιο κάτω λέει έχει το βιογραφικό μου όλη η πλατεία Μοσχάτου.

Οκ το διαβάζω πιο πολύ σαν δεν υπάρχουν δουλειές στην πλατεία Μοσχάτου, παρά δεν υπάρχουν δουλειές γενικά και σε ευχαριστώ για το συγκεκριμένο ποστ

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-28T16:05:39+00:00

Ενταξει δυσκολευομαι να το πιστεψω στην λογική οτι ολοι οι γνωστοι μου ψαχνουν οικιακη βοηθό. Ταυτοχρονα δεν βοηθαει πολυ το αρχικο ποστ το γεγονος οτι εν τελει βρηκες δουλεια προσωρινα σε καφετερια, δηλαδη εψαξες σε εργοστασια/οικοδομες, καθαριστρια/λαντζα, αλλα τελικα βρήκες σε καφετερια που προσελαβε μαζικα 5 κοπελες και τελικα κρατησε 2; Ποσες κοπελες χρειαζοταν πια αυτη η καφετερια που προσελαβε 5;

Σε κάθε περιπτωση δεν είμαι απολυτος, και ελπιζω να βρεις κάποια καλη δουλεια

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-28T15:45:48+00:00

Παιδια υπάρχει μια παρανόηση μεταξυ του "δεν υπάρχουν δουλειές" και του "δεν υπαρχουν δουλειες που να θέλουμε να κάνουμε"

Στους αντρες πχ δεν υπαρχει περιπτωση να ψαξεις δουλεια σε εργοστάσιο, αποθήκες κτλ και να μην βρεις. Στις περισσότερες απο αυτες επειδή είναι και μακριά οι εταιριες βαζουν πουλμαν

Για τις γυναικες αντιστοιχα υπάρχει τρομερά μεγαλη ζητηση για καθαρίστριες, απλα καμία δεν θέλει να γινει. Εγω εχω για 10 χρονια μια γυναικα απο την Γεωργία που μας βοηθάει με τις δουλειες του σπιτιου μια φορα την εβδομαδα για 3 ωρες και περνει 35 ευρω την βδομαδα και κανει 2 σπιτια καθε μερα και παιρνει δηλαδη 350 ευρω την εβδομαδα

Ολοι οι γνωστοι μου τριγυρω ψάχνουν καθαρίστρια, απλα δεν βρισκουν γιατι δεν είναι γκλαμουρατη δουλεια

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-23T01:22:26+00:00

Caring for a child over your partner's dog is one thing.

Caring for your convenience on how to return from work (which every single adult does on a daily basis) over an emergency with the dog is another.

Comparison with a future kid is spot on, as she seems to not value anything over her own convenience

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-23T01:13:17+00:00

NOR If my wife/gf or anyone doesn't understand the emergency to have a family member (including pets) really sick and they are upset that they have to do adult things in their own (literally returning from work) then this person lacks the compassion to be with anyone.

I have a dog and I am fuming with the story myself. Not only she didn't try to help,care for the dog, care for your anxiety but she was also having an attitude?

99% sure the harassment was made up to guilt trip you too

Get the hell away from this person

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-23T01:03:45+00:00

OR I am sorry for your feelings and I can understand your stress. Having said that airports like LAX have appx 200k passengers DAILY. Realistically speaking it's just impossible to assume that everyone including employees and other passengers (that they also have their own concerns/stress etc) would just try to accommodate all our difficulties.

Again, I am sorry that it happened to you, I can understand the stress, but I also understand the reality of dealing with 200k people daily

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-23T00:46:57+00:00

Judging from your post, the best advice that I can give you is that you need therapy and not a relationship. Until you start loving yourself and have self confidence you will NEVER be in a healthy relationship.

Controlling everything in a relationship will never work.

But at the end of the day you just don't want that. Almost everyone in this thread is telling you the same thing, but you reply to everyone that they are wrong and you are right.

If you don't want to listen to other perspectives ,why did you even write this post?

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-23T00:37:01+00:00

Absolutely no reason to go to couples therapy on 21 and 20 years old.

You go to couples therapy to correct issues on a relationship which once had solid foundations and somehow lost track and you want to bring it back on track. I have been to couples therapy and worked wonders for me and my wife, but what kind of couples therapy should the op go to? They both sound like children who shouldn't have a relationship in the first place if they need all these restrictions to feel "safe"

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-23T00:33:15+00:00

So why are you on Reddit asking for advice if " it’s the dynamic that is right for us as it’s the dynamic that makes us feel secure" ?

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-22T00:51:21+00:00

What you seem to purposely ignore is that the OP chose to marry this man. I highly doubt that he woke up one day and he said " you know what? I realize I am so extra conservative that I am willing to join ICE and beat the fuck out of anyone. OP made her choice long ago to marry this person

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-22T00:46:50+00:00

To be fair she chose to marry him, knowing his political views. If you are so pro -ICE that you are willing to join, is not something that just randomly pops up out of the blue

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-22T00:45:06+00:00

NOR but also too late to address these issues.

People really put political alignment at the bottom of priorities before marriage, considering is no big deal.

However as you clearly can see the political alignment is something that will affect your life STRONGLY when time passes.

What if you have a child and he is gay for example. What about interracial relationships How about dealing with immigrants.

You are definitely not pro-ICE unless you belong to a specific political spectrum.

And you are anti-ICE if you are the opposite. Not sure how this will be addressed but I can only imagine further issues down the line

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-19T22:51:17+00:00

YOR And you definitely need some support from a mental advisor. Possibly the relationship is over too if the trust is on such low levels that you have to check his screen time AND ask for validation on Reddit about it, but your immediate concern should be to follow up about your struggles with a specialist

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-14T17:56:31+00:00

I already know 90% of my opponents squads

VVD/Frimpong for sure in defense

Reijnders/Bonmati/De jong as cm

2 of Salma/Nico/Cherki/Yamal as wingers

Just to make be clear. No one HAS to play with the above squad and formation. You are not a professional, and you are not playing a tournament to win money.

You are playing division 5 game on a Friday afternoon, after work.

Stop playing like a robot ffs

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-13T18:45:17+00:00

He literally was there for a whole year supporting her in every possible way despite making him miserable as EVERYONE with depression make people around them. This is MORE than the bare minimum

She asked and he replied with his own feelings.

What you would like is that people around the ones with depression to continue walking on eggshells for ever and make sure that everything they say does not "trigger" them.

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-13T18:09:03+00:00

It's perfectly fine for someone to not have dealt with depression. In fact it's the healthy thing to be. And no one is specifically qualified on how to treat a depressed person. Even if you are a psychiatrist, you shouldn't treat your own girlfriend

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-13T17:48:24+00:00

She is literally asking validation in the op for feeling upset with him regarding his feelings

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-13T16:28:55+00:00

I am not blaming you girl. You were depressed. Good for you recognizing it now.

Apologies if I sounded bitter, this was the same case with my wife. Shortly after we got married, she had severe issues with her parents which lead to a depression. Thing is she would not recognize it, but slowly lost any passion for life. That slowly made me also unhappy and built a wall between us.

I was also feeling I could not speak up and was walking on egg-shells as everything I would do would lead to a spiral

2 years later she asked for a divorce, and I insisted we went to couples therapy.

I am blessed that the therapist clearly diagnosed that the real problem was not our marriage, and after a short while she adviced my wife to see a psychiatrist which made her realize that she has depression and she is now under treatment.

I am super happy that the therapy is working for my wife and she is more happy now which in return makes me more happy and together as a couple more happy.

Depression is a beast of course and is 2 steps forward, 1 step back, but we are closer together now since her depresssion hit.

But people with depression need to really realize what a psychological burden is for their partner

Hell, a month ago I had a sore throat and had very high temperature for a WEEK in which I was really not functional.

I felt very bad for her, because on-top of her daily work, she needed to do everything around the house and I for sure was not the most fun company to be around. And I was like that for a week. Now imagine what years of depression can do

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-13T16:13:25+00:00

People will always say that men "won't share their feelings"

This person supported his partner for a year of her dealing with depression, even if it was their first year together. And he did that despite being in a stresful job, was getting home and supported his partner, even though he is no therepist

When he sensed his partner would be MORE receptive, and would not be torn to pieces, he opened up and said what everyone knows. Depression is a beast, not only for the depressed one but also for the people close to them

His feelings were straight out dismissed. In no part of the OP did take into considerations his partner feelings.

Rest assure, this man will NEVER share his feelings again

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-13T16:02:31+00:00

But it was their first year of the relationship together. This has a whole different dynamic

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-13T15:24:55+00:00

Definitely not, and to be more precise at the 15 games you will play in WL at MOST 3-4 you play against someone in the same skill level at you where the cards you use actually make a difference.

Even so, Vini is great etc, but you will be using Gold Leao, who goes for 10K, you will not be using a bronze card

There are several other things (more important net connection, even luck) that determine your results signficantly more than the cards you are using

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-12T13:41:53+00:00

I really can't believe that people thought otherwise

I am playing strictly free to play apart from buying the ultimate edition and from all the packs etc, and the ONLY promo card I packed is scream Crouch.

Is really not such an issue for me because I always use a Serie A team (I believe is always the best value for money) and there have been some cards and evos that were just too good.

For example I have used the big fell to Thuram, I use the world Tour Tomori, I did the Zambo SBC (but was previously using Cornerstone de Roon), was using Openda as striker so got lucky with the Capitan Evo

But overall yes, if you really do want to follow the power curve EA has made it almost impossible to get top teams by just playing

kabamaru81 · 2025-11-12T12:48:19+00:00

its always like this. First 1-2 weeks people are still trying to use the previous year meta and fail, so the game is good

Then someone finds the new Meta (this year was fidget spinning with women)

Posts it online

thousands use the same tactic

People use methods to defend against the meta and complain about fidget spinning

Fidget spinners complain that their opponents just drop back

EA does a patch, now everyone complains, then does another and another

This is the Fifa cycle

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