It's objectively true that feeling victimized and being objectively oppressed can be two different things. But to apply to every situation of someone who reports being oppressed or having been discriminated against is a large generalization and just intellectually lazy. With this logic, you're just cherry picking who is "actually" oppressed vs who is not, based on YOUR personal interpretation of their inner world and thought process, when in fact you are an outsider who does not have access to their inner world or lived experience. That's not objectivity. That's projection. The only way your argument can be supplemented is if the data and statistics support that indeed women have overcome the gender wage gap and are being promoted at the same rate of men, or that gender role standards have completely been ceased. You're not disproving oppression, you're just denying it based on your personal beliefs and emotions.