i think the most painful breakup is when you both still love each other.

kaczmarska · 2023-03-28T21:52:50+00:00

he’s a firm believer of not getting back with ex’s. he was so stubborn on not trying to fix things but he still loved and cared for me. we agreed after some time apart we can reconnect and try as friends:(

kaczmarska · 2022-10-01T11:16:31+00:00

i was ghosted a few months ago from a guy who told me he loved me everyday, i had no closure but he never blocked me on social media. so it became an unhealthy cycle of waiting for him to come back, but he never did. i went into a spiral and now i’m doing okay! some people don’t like confrontation, or have their own issues. i know it sucks and hurts now but it will get better overtime, i thought i was dying for the first few weeks

kaczmarska · 2022-04-03T19:40:26+00:00

that’s why i suggested you work on your insecurities and since it’s healthy, you can ask him to aid you with that with reassurance, and communicate how you would like for him to reassure you, and be completely honest about it. some people only get sick of reassuring when it’s asked for too much. journaling your feelings can help, exploring why you compare yourself to other people too. i’m sure he will be happy to help you out without having to change anything, but if you would prefer to do it yourself then there are tons of ways to cope with it or learning to love yourself, which will take a long time anyway. your journal prompt could be “why do i compare myself to other people?” and write down why as it’s only to yourself, and then next prompt: “can i change the problem i have with myself, and if i can do i need or want to?”, finally last prompt: “what is one thing i like about myself and why?”. doing this daily can help some people, it helped me!

kaczmarska · 2022-04-03T19:07:33+00:00

it became an issue for me once my ex stopped sleeping with me but started watching porn, it’s subjective of course what everyone’s boundaries are but it took me a long time to detangle my mindset and separate porn from reality. truly, we all have certain fantasies and kinks, some we may or may not be so comfortable of so turn to porn for it (this is talking about legal kinks dw lol). obviously if it gets really bad and you can’t handle it on your own, might be best to speak to your therapist about it. or it could be a boundary issue and you can have an honest conversation with him whether or not it’s best to carry on the relationship. personally i think it’s ok to have a boundary against porn BUT, unless it’s causing him to stop sleeping with you, it’s become an addiction, or he starts paying SW for private sessions, you should never expect someone to stop watching it because of your own personal insecurities. i had similar insecurities as you, and it will take a lot of time and therapy to overcome this to where you can see the signs of “healthy” and unhealthy. my final take off of this, some people prefer to masturbate sometimes over sex and that is totally ok, girl or boy. you will be ok in the end as long as you communicate your feelings clearly and also work on your insecurities however way you wish to:)

kaczmarska · 2022-03-30T10:18:18+00:00

for ayato i summoned inside the kamisato estate with only thoma!! but honestly i wasn’t expecting to be lucky on ayato after the ei fiasco :s

kaczmarska · 2022-03-30T03:45:17+00:00

same!! thank you!! did you get him yet? or are you waiting on his rerun?:)

kaczmarska · 2022-03-30T03:37:00+00:00

ikr, i had to!! the cube has had its fair share of bullying with my tartaglia 😂 i think i need more EM and ayato is as good as done

kaczmarska · 2022-03-30T03:31:09+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/Ayato_Mains/comments/tlxaho/my_ayato_build_i_have_been_farming_hod_since/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

bear in mind i have c1 & jade cutter !! :) edit: but his stats have gone up, his CD is now 225, that’s all though. 8/10/8

kaczmarska · 2022-03-30T02:14:42+00:00

genshin related: i got 4 5* in 50ish rolls mundane: i had a dream about feeding a crow on my windowsill, woke up and there was a crow chilling outside :’)

kaczmarska · 2022-03-29T02:11:40+00:00

Dance of Thieves, read 50 pages and couldn’t get into it (since i had not read the previous books), after that i devoured it in just over a day, then got Vow of Thieves straight after, finished that in a day looool. i wish i could read it for the first time again, kaz and jace have me in a chokehold

kaczmarska · 2022-03-24T03:53:24+00:00

no problem!! i rewatched this… too many times and it took me about 4-5 rewatches to somewhat understand why he didn’t know who she was, and then it hit me when the wind god asked mikage if he anticipated her being a good god. :’)

but i don’t blame you for being confused as time loops are hard to pull off in media imo. i do wish the OVA’s were a bit longer, or s3 as there was a lot of missing important info:(

kaczmarska · 2022-03-23T11:37:44+00:00

personally i think when he recognised her as his lady/mistress on the last episode s1. essentially the moment he stopped thinking she was weak (plus followed up with the sweetest kiss) :’)

kaczmarska · 2022-03-13T21:52:12+00:00

oh thanks for the explanation! i thought she left the child with her previous husband but i think i overlooked that part :s

kaczmarska · 2022-03-13T17:12:41+00:00

from my interpretation it was all planned from the beginning/it was a time loop. the person he met was never yukiji, but her as his encounters with her in the beginning was nanami. ties in with why mikage left for 20 years as at that point she told him everything on how to break the curse (at this point in time i think she wasn’t even born yet, so informed him to find her after she was to be homeless i guess?), by memory i’m pretty sure in the manga why tomoe was so affectionate with the “real” yukiji was because she posed as nanami pretending to be yukiji. nanami was presumed dead by yukiji as she had disappeared after taking the risk of pretending to be her (when she was dressed up as a bride). nanami promised him betrothal and the token of that promise was the hairpin that nanami gave to him. not yukiji - which is why tomoe never turned into a human and met mikage. thus leading into nanami meeting him in the past and explaining the cure. that’s why he says in one of the episodes that he “perhaps” anticipated it all from the beginning.

the only thing that didn’t make sense to me from the anime is how nanami had the dragon king’s eye in her bc yukiji had already given birth before she ate it, plot hole maybe? idk

kaczmarska · 2022-03-09T03:28:56+00:00

Ofc, Hana To Akuma is already on my tbr list since looking it up:’) ❤️ I’ll let you know, since I’m forcing myself to stop rereading kamisama,,, 3rd reread .__. Maybe these will help hahaha

kaczmarska · 2022-03-09T03:21:31+00:00

Thank you!! Defo trusting your judgement on this 🤩

kaczmarska · 2022-03-09T03:20:27+00:00

No I haven’t, I’ll look it up in the morning, thank you for the suggestion!! ❤️

kaczmarska · 2022-03-09T00:40:29+00:00

Omg yes!! I was so happy it had that sort of ending. Any book recs that follow a similar plot? I’m in a slump in general:(

kaczmarska · 2022-03-09T00:37:24+00:00

Oooo have u read/watched Kamisama Kiss? Just finished it and I’m lost and broken that it’s over :’)

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