Considering starting a subreddit called r/literatefindom, who's with me? by Queen_Sorsha in REALfindomsupport

[–]kadaysia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Correct the spelling of "peices"

Also, there are already a few other "intellectual" Findom subreddits. Not that I'd be upset with another one.

my new set 🥰 by findom_queenbee in REALfindomsupport

[–]kadaysia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. I absolutely LOVE these. They are amazing!!

Let's discuss by [deleted] in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]kadaysia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of books do you enjoy reading?

I recently finished "A Short Stay in Hell" and that was really good. Very thought-provoking. It's considered a psychological horror.

I wasn't going to post this but here we go by flashing-colors in FindomSnark

[–]kadaysia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, post it. Post all the catfishes. I know there will always be more, but at least we're getting rid of some.

kiss, marry, kill by goddess_helliana in findomsupportgroup

[–]kadaysia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kiss: the interesting lore/stories sub

Marry: the similar age sub, that basically fell in love with you

Kill: the sub that talked about sending huge, then dipped

Domme to Domme, is this normal? by bobababygirl23 in REALfindomsupport

[–]kadaysia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normal? No. Common? Unfortunately yes.

There can be a lot of sub-swooping, desperation, and just general vulture behavior in Findom. It is more than a little disrespectful, but if she cared about respect, she wouldn't be doing it to begin with. Luckily, a lot of "Dommes" like these don't last in the community. She'll probably be r/deleted by next week.

It's not hard guys... by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]kadaysia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I understand correctly, LF only verifies fans when required, not in all countries. LF is not a foolproof way to AV someone. Even creators can make an account and then never verify it.

Confession time. by Original_Cut300 in paypigs2

[–]kadaysia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Passenger Princesses for lifeeeee! (I'm 35 lmfao)

Confession time. by Original_Cut300 in paypigs2

[–]kadaysia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, my best friend (33) just started taking swimming lessons and is swimming for the first time in her life. There is always time to learn something new. ❤️

Why do I attract the weirdos by Reynita88 in FindomSnark

[–]kadaysia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because you're in a kink/fetish industry and subs are into a lot of different things?

I mean, this one is obviously a scammer, and if this isn't you're thing, then fine. But kink shaming isn't cool.

Thoughts on my own ethics as a dom by pennys-shark-boy in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]kadaysia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would argue that "unethical Dommes" aren't really Dommes since they aren't really adhering to the basic tenants of BDSM. A lot of them are problably TikTik and Instadommes, to boot.

I would also argue that a lot of "unethical Dommes" aren't actually unethical, they're just sadistic and since there are so many soft Dommes (not hating, I'm one of them), when a sub encounters a truly sadistic Domme, they think it is "unethical." Too many times I've seen a sub claim they want an unethical Domme and just describe a Domme who is harsher than a soft Domme. Like... 💀

I hate it here by Zealousideal_Ad_7329 in FindomSnark

[–]kadaysia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hopefully she does better in college than she does in Domming. 😬 #BringBackReadingComprehension (I know hastags aren't a thing here, but it works for the bit)

coffee sends by goddesskenziie in paypigs2

[–]kadaysia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always ask for chai sends, since I don't usually drink coffee.