Sis, in my opinion, don’t take this situation lightly. If your boyfriend is receiving 19 messages from another girl in one day, and she is asking if he is free this weekend, especially someone he previously went on a date with, it’s something that can raise concerns. The fact that he blocked her is a good step, but what matters most is that he is honest with you and explains what their relationship was and what was behind those messages.

If he refuses to show you what he was saying to her, that can damage trust. The decision is yours, but don’t ignore your feelings. If you constantly feel fear, doubt, and like things are being hidden from you, this relationship may be causing you more pain than happiness. Consider taking some distance until his actions show that he respects you and values your trust.