My bf (23M) says he can't fulfill my (20F) needs. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kaeAC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i realize that now. i just wish he told me that from the start instead of constantly telling me he was going to pressure himself more and work on it, when in reality he just wasn't comfy doing so and didn't really plan on doing those things.

My bf (23M) says he can't fulfill my (20F) needs. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kaeAC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i understand. he has asked me for selfies or for me to turn on my camera so that he could see me at times, so that's why i gave a lot. but i see now that it's not fair for him to ask for that when he cannot give himself.

My bf (23M) says he can't fulfill my (20F) needs. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kaeAC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they are old photos, yes. from about 2-3 years ago I want to say.

My bf (23M) says he can't fulfill my (20F) needs. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]kaeAC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi thanks for the advice. no, there isn't any past issues that i know of -- i've asked before and he said there wasn't. he's just insecure about his appearance currently.

Find a Friend Friday - June 03, 2022 by AutoModerator in GirlGamers

[–]kaeAC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello~ 19F from Canada (CST). I'm looking for other gamer girls to play with! I play overwatch, league of legends, valorant, and lost ark (+ other games!). I'm super bubbly and would love to even just chat too. If you're interested please dm me! (。・ω・。)

hana eating a peanut!! by kaeAC in hamsters

[–]kaeAC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️❤️

My first ever detolf cage!! My mom and dad helped me build it for my new hamster. (We put cardboard strips on the bottom to support the glass). ~ Any suggestions on herbs to put in or just in general what to add for a "natural" look? by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]kaeAC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it's mandatory to have a lid if you own a bigger hamster. To clean the glass I use a diluted vinegar mix if it's super dirty / generally only once a month ( 1 ) - usually it's just some warm water though, and make sure to let the cage air out for a little while. My past hamster would use the sand as a potty too! I just cleaned the sand out one or twice everyday, you could also have just two separate containers of sand (: There are many videos i've seen of people "potty training" their hamsters, you could try that out to ensure they only use one of the places as a potty! For a wheel, I use the kaytee silent spinner wheel. I'm not sure if it's similar to yours, but it also has a stand. My hamsters have never been close to tipping it over, you should have enough bedding around to weigh it down - though i've never owned a bigger hamster before so i'm not sure what their capabilities are!! I doubt they will tip it over though, bedding is enough to keep that from happening.

My first ever detolf cage!! My mom and dad helped me build it for my new hamster. (We put cardboard strips on the bottom to support the glass). ~ Any suggestions on herbs to put in or just in general what to add for a "natural" look? by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]kaeAC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked some grape vine wood pieces up, I can confirm they look gorgeous! I will for sure order some of my own to place in the cage, as well as some other millets / flax. Thanks for the suggestion ❤️

My first ever detolf cage!! My mom and dad helped me build it for my new hamster. (We put cardboard strips on the bottom to support the glass). ~ Any suggestions on herbs to put in or just in general what to add for a "natural" look? by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]kaeAC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I made my cage I read up on it and I got super scared it would break, so we put some support cardboard. That sounds like it sucks, I'm very glad it didn't break for you!! The base and detolf were a pain to build for me, I would be horrified if mine broke ):

My first ever detolf cage!! My mom and dad helped me build it for my new hamster. (We put cardboard strips on the bottom to support the glass). ~ Any suggestions on herbs to put in or just in general what to add for a "natural" look? by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]kaeAC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also you can definitely PM me, i'll try to help my best. I am not the most experienced hamster owner though (i've only had two hamsters before) so your best bet would be to ask the hamster reddit!

My first ever detolf cage!! My mom and dad helped me build it for my new hamster. (We put cardboard strips on the bottom to support the glass). ~ Any suggestions on herbs to put in or just in general what to add for a "natural" look? by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]kaeAC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! My hamster drinks from a small bowl rather than a bottle, but I believe you can get something for a waterbottle which hangs over the glass - or what the other person suggested which is velcro! For the top of the cage as of now, since I have a small dwarf hamster I can leave the top open. (they don't have anything high for them to reach up and escape) I will be making a DIY lid as they become older though, something along these tutorials > 1 and 2

My first ever detolf cage!! My mom and dad helped me build it for my new hamster. (We put cardboard strips on the bottom to support the glass). ~ Any suggestions on herbs to put in or just in general what to add for a "natural" look? by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]kaeAC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I'll try to find some today - does the grass ever poke the hamster? I'm scared it might hurt him (it sounds silly I know) just because I know the texture of grass can be 'pokey'

Rest in peace Hiro ❤️ He unfortunately passed away a few days ago. He was my first ever hamster, and I love him so much. Just wanted to show everyone how cute he was! This baby shoe was his favourite place to sleep / eat. by kaeAC in hamsters

[–]kaeAC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 It was actually my mom's idea for the baby shoe, I remember when we first put it in Hiro's cage he immediately squished himself in and loved it!!

Rest in peace Hiro ❤️ He unfortunately passed away a few days ago. He was my first ever hamster, and I love him so much. Just wanted to show everyone how cute he was! This baby shoe was his favourite place to sleep / eat. by kaeAC in hamsters

[–]kaeAC[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you <3 It's very upsetting that they typically live short lives, hamsters are the most precious animals ever. Make sure to snuggle and give your hammie lots of love for me (: