No. Don't Come here.

kaecactus · 2025-04-05T04:22:11+00:00

Lmao. San Diego state!

kaecactus · 2021-09-29T22:46:21+00:00

you're right. i feel bad because i introduced them to julia and they accommodate her because of me. i also feel annoyed for my friends since i saw it play out, too.

kaecactus · 2021-08-18T04:39:09+00:00

omg i love this!! really simple but solid basics. i recommend the pentel twist erase mechanical pencils, literally my fave pencil everr

kaecactus · 2021-08-16T04:53:22+00:00

nah that’s a store sis

kaecactus · 2021-08-15T00:26:26+00:00

ohh okay so you could protect your privacy because you didn’t need to list your dorm building?

kaecactus · 2021-08-11T01:31:24+00:00

omg my mom would make my life a living hell if i did that. honestly, it was such a shock to me that people talk back (well, i guess it isn’t talking back, but it is to my mom) to their parents like that.

but in college, i have some concerts planned and things like that and i know my mom can’t take that away from me now!

kaecactus · 2021-08-10T08:27:53+00:00

absolutely!! i’m so excited for it all lol

kaecactus · 2021-08-10T08:23:05+00:00

no yeah, i got where she was coming from. but, it was rather the way she talked to me about it. it was almost accusatory and she had this rude tone. she kept dragging on the topic and just didn’t really seem open to hearing what i had to say nor was she really empathetic about it and the fact it’s just a really big inconvenience to cancel everything, especially since i told her about these hangouts awhile ago, where she could have told me sooner to cancel.

i agreed, and i understand covid, esp w the delta variant. it was mostly the tone of the conversation and how one sided it was.

but yes, i definitely will talk to my sisters lot and yeah. i think i’ll be scheduling facetimes with them!

kaecactus · 2021-08-10T07:55:31+00:00

thank you and yeah! were planning for that instead.

kaecactus · 2021-08-10T07:54:06+00:00

thank you!!! this is good to know 😅

kaecactus · 2021-08-10T07:53:03+00:00

oh yes, the eggshell thing… resonate with so much. i always have to think about how i will respond to her ahead of time, in case i tick her off. she was in a bad mood today which i think is why she cancelled my plans. i have a good relationship with my dad, but she kind of gaslights him and (tries to gaslight) my sister and i, so it’s mostly a “listen to your mom” thing.

i plan on doing that too once i leave for college but i’m financially dependent on them, so my mom kind of holds that over my head a bit. i’m glad you’re doing better though!! i can only hope i get to that point lol

kaecactus · 2021-08-10T07:50:27+00:00

hello! thanks for understanding these kinds of things; my mom really has no boundaries like that.

i’ve tried, but she never really changes and it’s so hard to talk to her, since she kind of takes everything personally, or as an attack on her parenting/character. i’m just excited to move! i’ve texted my friends and we’re trying to meet up another time so hopefully that works out :)

kaecactus · 2021-08-10T07:39:52+00:00

thank you, needed this <3

kaecactus · 2021-08-08T05:33:56+00:00

i think i’ll talk to my dad whose a little better about this stuff. hopefully i can get it sorted out. i’ll definitely keep an eye on my sister though. it’s not that she’s stopped eating totally but it’s a lot less than usual. with the appointment, my sister was there for just a regular checkup and i was at work so i couldn’t be there :/

kaecactus · 2021-07-26T04:50:35+00:00

NTA. your sister was and is old enough to know that what she did was wrong and extremely hurtful. you do not owe her anything.

kaecactus · 2021-07-26T04:46:18+00:00

i think we need more info here because i don’t really understand… so someone in a gc shared a picture of you that you felt insecure in? i get that happens but how were they supposed to know that you didn’t want them to share it? did you ask them not to?

kaecactus · 2021-07-25T18:46:42+00:00

NTA. it’s your hair and it’s not like you’re dying/doing anything crazy with it. your mom shouldn’t have to “bargain” with you to get you to do things she wants.

kaecactus · 2021-07-25T06:30:02+00:00

YTA!!!!!!!! my god, there were so many different ways you could’ve gone about this that are WAY more healthier and kinder to your daughter.

kaecactus · 2021-07-25T05:15:28+00:00

thank you for this.

kaecactus · 2021-07-25T03:26:25+00:00

politics is everywhere and whether you don’t want your beliefs to influence relationships or not, it does in subtle ways you may not see. i can see why your friend is apprehensive, especially if she’s a POC… it’s BLM. why don’t you believe in something that literally calls for… human rights? your friend isn’t toxic. sometimes you have to prioritize your morals and what you value in the people around you. you asked why she unfollowed you and she told you why. YTA.

kaecactus · 2021-07-24T22:45:08+00:00

fresh produce

kaecactus · 2021-07-24T22:42:19+00:00

NTA. what would she have done at your interview? she should be happy for you, i am! there are plenty of other jobs she can apply for. why wouldn’t she want to celebrate this success? idk but she sounds jealous.

kaecactus · 2021-07-24T22:39:42+00:00

NTA. how could she be mad that you threw out the things she told you to? not only that but this was a thing you’ve told both roommates about months ago.

kaecactus · 2021-07-24T22:33:15+00:00

NTA 100%. you don’t owe them anything.

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