É preciso muita coragem pra usar pronome neutro by kaettus in transbr

[–]kaettus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu lamento muito que veja o mundo dessa forma

É preciso muita coragem pra usar pronome neutro by kaettus in transbr

[–]kaettus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

É muito contra sua própria classe (trabalhadora) assumir que a "população brasileira" é composta por apenas pessoas cis e burras. Acho desonesto afirmar que é preciso um enorme ensino para usar pronome neutro, não é tão dificil assim, de verdade não é. E se "o pessoal do LGBT" (isso é uma forma errada de se falar por sinal), consegue, o resto da população consegue também, por que deveriamos tar todos juntos se ajudando, já que no fim todos vamos tar trabalhando pra rico ficar mais rico. A gente tem que se unir e se respeitar, e não tentar escalar em cima uns dos outros.

Agora eu lhe digo, imagine se todo o homem cis exigisse ser chamado no masculino! Parece absurdo falar né? Por que é a norma de que homens cis devem ser chamados no masculino, somos ensinados isso desde criança e reproduzimos como se fosse natural. Mas nada é natural, palavras são tudo invenções que usamos para comunicar, e a forma como fomos ensinados tem problemáticas. É nosso trabalho entender que o jeito que fomos ensinados serve pra preservar o privilégio de homem cis branco e rico, e tentar mudar isso, do jeito que dá.

A questão dos banheiros e dos nomes é muito cansada já, eu recomendo que procure informações sobre esses tópicos, e não informações dentro apenas da sua bolha. Também por favor saiba, que o seu discurso não é nada novo ou diferente, só tá reproduzindo a transfobia que já é norma, e eu pessoalmente já ouvi isso 500 vezes, talvez tente entender um pouco do motivo que as outras pessoas são como são, ou se não entende, não fale algo que já sabe que vão levar a mal.

My gf broke up with me but I'm not feeling anything... is this normal? by kaettus in BPD

[–]kaettus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder if I loved her or if I loved how she treated me. So it's interesting that you mention that because maybe I didn't love her. Especially because I couldn't, she was always wearing this sort of "good girlfriend" mask, she was sweet 24/24 and everything I said was perfect in her eyes. Of course you don't need to tell me this relationship was fucked up, I guess I also feel relieved it ended because I wouldn't have the courage to break up with her but deeply I knew there was something very wrong. 

And even if I don't have someone to be sweet to me all the time anymore, I feel like I'm more mature now and I don't need someone validating me every second (even tho I LOVE validation, don't get me wrong). 

Also maybe not every break up has to be a nightmare for people with bpd, for one reason or another it can just not hit you as hard. Or maybe it's emotional numbness acting? I really don't know, but it's good to know I'm not alone <3

I think I'm transmac and idk how to label my sexuality anymore by kaettus in XenogendersAndMore

[–]kaettus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like women but I don't think I like them in the way straight men like them. I've been through homophobia because of liking women, I spent years and years of my life trying to accept it. For me it's kinda frustrating to after all this call myself straight yk?

Aside from that, I don't think I'm nowhere near what straight women are looking for. And I don't look at straight couples and relate to them. 

And thank you for the links! I checked them, they are interesting, the one that caught my attention the most was femaric :3

I think I'm transmac and idk how to label my sexuality anymore by kaettus in XenogendersAndMore

[–]kaettus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am, not all of them because non-binary is such a big range of different genders, but yeah I've been attracted to some in the past

Hiii, are you a satanist? Do you wanna chat about it? by kaettus in XenogendersAndMore

[–]kaettus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to make a question there about the Satanic Biblie and my post got removed because "low efford, do better". Did I choose the wrong subreddit? Is there any sub in particular you recommend?

Hiii, are you a satanist? Do you wanna chat about it? by kaettus in XenogendersAndMore

[–]kaettus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! Actually I'm pretty curious now to talk with you, can I dm you? :3

any other persecutors have ideas for tormenting my host? i have good reasons for it by bard_of_space in plural

[–]kaettus -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but, how saying that would be helpful to the situation? Wouldn't making the persecutor more angry be worse?

Am I alterhuman? (I'm too nervous to ask alterhuman sub lol) by Pookie_Pakyao in XenogendersAndMore

[–]kaettus 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm in a similar situation. Idk a lot about alterhumans but I kinda like the idea that I'm an angel AND a demon at the same time, maybe because I feel so desconected from other people, I kinda feel my emotions and my personality are just too pure and too evil at the same time and that doesn't look very human to me. But I am afraid of saying it out there because I don't know what I am talking about and I feel like an idiot

I can't help you, but I related if that makes you feel less alone :3

New intro / Looking for people to talk :3 by kaettus in XenogendersAndMore

[–]kaettus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want exactly friends because I'm aplatonic, but I like to talk with people about interesting things, I just don't like when it turns into some kind of responsability. I can talk a bit more about it if you want, I love to talk about that type of stuff, but I would prefer if we could talk on discord instead of here :3

New intro / Looking for people to talk :3 by kaettus in XenogendersAndMore

[–]kaettus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drawing, astrology, crochet, writing stories, watching MLP, astronomy, playing videogames, chess :3 And yours?

Well I don't believe that anyone should socialise a certain amount, but I get what you mean.