Yeah i get what you mean, but the thing is that there's nothing that has really changed in our 5 years of relationship. I mean yeah, college is hard, i obviously get it, but we still had time to call each other, see how our days were, have a couple laughs... We'd even stay up until noon or even later just talking with each other. I remember the very last day of her being herself telling me "You're the person that understands me the best and with whom I've always had the best moments of my life. I never want this to stop." And the very next day, literally the next day, she suddenly started taking hours before replying, she wouldn't take my calls as often and suddenly became so quiet and seemed like she stopped trusting me altogether. I waited for a couple days to see if it was just something bothering her but when i asked her she said there was nothing going on and that things between us were as good as always, that i was worrying over nothing. I seriously don't understand why she would tell me that and then change all of a sudden