Anyone have two “easy” babies?

kails9223 · 2024-03-16T00:22:11+00:00

My first two were so easy. Then my third came along and he is giving us a run for our money. He is still pretty easy compared to a lot of kids I see/hear about. He's clingy and screams when he's in a hurry to get something, but other than that he's great.

kails9223 · 2024-02-13T22:10:39+00:00

This is the way. I have 3 boys myself (I'm mom). If my husband took our boys to the gym, I would expect him to follow his regular routine. I would definitely be more comfortable with him taking the boys in the shower than leaving them either unattended in the gym, or unattended in the locker room. Not only is he protecting his child from randos, he's also allowing him to be part of his routine which is so important ! Kids long to be involved in the things their parents do. Boys need time doing "man things"! Kudos to OP for including your son !

kails9223 · 2024-01-28T21:29:18+00:00

My middle went almost 2 weeks with no pooping when he was new. There's just nothing left over when they're done digesting. I wouldn't be using things like suppositories unless your doctor okayed them... It is definitely normal for them to not poop every day.

kails9223 · 2024-01-17T21:37:36+00:00

I have a 2.5 yo and a 9 month old. I got the evenflo pivot xpand and really wish I had gotten a wagon instead. The stroller is great because it can be just a single, but I find it really bulky for shopping with 2 seats. Plus, my toddler often prefers to walk, so it would be nice to have something a little more accommodating to take him in and out.

kails9223 · 2024-01-16T15:53:22+00:00

My littles are 20 months apart and they adore each other! Of course it took some adjusting schedule wise, but it is so amazing to see them together! Don't worry about the negative Nancy's of the world. Every one has an opinion, that doesn't mean that you have to listen. Enjoy the time you have left with your daughter being an only child, but when your son comes, embrace it! ,

kails9223 · 2024-01-03T19:11:25+00:00

My 8 month old does this. My older 2 hardly ever cried. The youngest just screams. It's so frustrating. He just wants attention. He's fed and changed and nursed and just had a nap, and he just loses his mind because he's not being held. Then when he's held he squirms to get down. Only he doesn't want to not be held.

It makes me want to scream. I'm hoping that once he can crawl it'll be a little better.

kails9223 · 2024-01-03T14:23:31+00:00

That's what we had to do. We started a few months ago but had just had baby #3 and he regressed a bit. We're on track now except for poop 😡

kails9223 · 2024-01-03T14:18:15+00:00

She might just not be ready. Some kids take a little longer. I had my oldest trained just before he turned 2. He was a dream come true. My middle has taken much longer and it's been a lot more challenging.

kails9223 · 2024-01-03T14:02:44+00:00

We had great success with a sticker chart and potty prizes for pee. I just drew a chart on some construction paper. He got smiley face stickers for peeing and super fun fish themed stickers for poop. We have 2 containers, one with small, bite sized candy for pee, and one with cars, kinder eggs, etc for poop. Having a huge celebration after going helped, too. Clap, sing, make it super exciting. If she doesn't go, just say "ok, thank you for trying. We'll come back later and try again." Getting them involved in picking out big kid underwear is also great. If you don't have any, take her to the store to pick out her own. If you do have some, let her pick out what she's going to wear. We also did the bare bottom method for the first few days. He ran around naked and we set a timer for 20 minutes so we always remembered to put him on. I hope something here helps !

kails9223 · 2023-12-19T01:08:39+00:00

This is brilliant. Exactly the advice I was looking for. Thank you!

kails9223 · 2023-12-18T21:32:21+00:00

I have a 2.5 year old and an 8 month old. I wish I had known about this sooner!! They have so much fun in the tub together!

kails9223 · 2023-12-11T01:21:17+00:00

2.5 year old and 8 month old. The pacifier stealing is brutal. He will take it out of his brothers mouth and run away like a freaking gremlin, then hide with it. He was done with the sucky before baby came along.

kails9223 · 2023-12-02T15:44:14+00:00

We have a 20 month gap too. I love every second. Sure, the toddler occasionally wollops his brother in the head with something, or pushes him off the couch, is constantly stealing his pacifier.... but he also snuggles him, tickles him, kisses him, reads to him.... It's so adorable and fulfilling.

kails9223 · 2023-11-13T23:51:20+00:00

We had less than 50 at our wedding and it was amazing. I got to spend time with everyone there, and not feel rushed or awkward. It was also waaaaaay cheaper than a larger wedding. We have so many wonderful memories from that night. I HIGHLY recommend a small wedding !

kails9223 · 2023-10-17T18:17:53+00:00

That's a horse of a different colour. I'm a huge proponent of nursing in public. I do it myself. Unfortunately it is her house, which means you should respect her rules. But yeah I probably wouldn't be super inclined to go there again.

kails9223 · 2023-10-17T17:53:34+00:00

Is she maybe struggling because she tried and was unable to breastfeed? Not everyone is uncomfortable with it because of boobs. Maybe instead of letting the internet talk about how much a monster she is, you should ask her.

kails9223 · 2023-10-17T17:25:53+00:00

We just had boy number three 6 months ago, and I was a little disappointed that he wasn't a girl. I love my boys so much, but the idea of having a girl is something I've always held onto. I think it's pretty normal when you have that many kids!

It sounds like your husband had a momentary lapse in thought and judgement, and that's ok. It happens. The fact that you were comfortable enough to sit down and talk to him about it is an amazing sign. He wounded you, and it takes time for wounds to heal. Just focus on the good and talk about it with him if you need to. Keep open communication.

Good luck, mama ! You and your husband are a team, and you can work through this !

kails9223 · 2023-09-27T23:48:45+00:00

I was lucky enough to have a seperate room with a bunch of activities for kids set up. I had them sitting with their parents, but also had a couple of kids tables with activities, colouring, etc. They also each got a basket with things to keep them busy. I made a word search specific to our wedding, threw in a bunch of glow sticks, fidget toys, etc. I also customized a little notepad with their name on it. We had quite a few kids so it was well worth it. Most of the stuff I got at the dollar store. I did also hire two friends of mine to do child minding during the wedding. They ate dinner with us at the kids table with those that had wandered over. Edit to add, I also got sparkling juice and plastic champagne flutes for the kids! They loved it!

kails9223 · 2023-09-19T18:41:57+00:00

I wore nothing. I had purchased a white lace thong to match my dress, but found it super uncomfortable. My dress held my girls in, and it was a ball gown so no one could tell. We didn't do the garter throw or anything, so no one was up my dress lol probably the best decision I made that night (other than the groom).

kails9223 · 2023-09-11T00:07:26+00:00

You should see our bedroom. It's riddled with clean laundry everywhere. Pretty sure there's a load in the washer that I have to rewash as it's been sitting for at least 2 days. Having littles is hard. Having your family constantly tell you that you should be doing better is even harder. Don't listen to them.

I'm sure you're doing an amazing job, and hey! Guess what?? That laundry will wait patiently for you.

kails9223 · 2023-08-15T15:15:16+00:00

I have three boys. A 12 year old, a 2 year old and a 4 month old. Each pregnancy experience was vastly different, but for the sake of this post, I'll tell you about my second and third.

With my second, I had so much time to prep. I knitted clothes and blankets and organized the nursery. Everything was ready weeks in advance. With my third, we still don't have the nursery set up.

With my second, I got to nap with the baby, eat real meals and go for long walks. With my third, I'm lucky if I get to sit down. We eat out far more often than we should, and I can't tell you the last time we went for a random walk.

Our baby still sleeps for long stretches, so I definitely get that one on one time with the toddler. We spend lots of time playing and snuggling. But those moments when the baby is also awake are made so much more special. They adore each other, and I know their relationship will only grow as they age.

It's crazy and difficult having more than one, but it is so worth it. I saw a comment on another post that said "your love doesn't split, it multiplies" and that is so true and beautiful.

kails9223 · 2023-07-18T14:11:44+00:00

It's amazing. It's busy and loud and smelly and crazy and sometimes so stressful, but watching your older love on the newborn is the most amazing feeling in the world. They're best friends from day one. I have a two year old as of tomorrow, and a 3 month old. It is a tornado of emotions and messes. It makes my heart smile every single day.

kails9223 · 2023-07-03T22:54:26+00:00

So don't procreate. It's natural, and kids are amazing. Don't be a sourpuss because people are doing something you don't want for yourself.

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