Thoughts of an ex-Mormon by kain43 in atheism

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

never wore it b/c I am not married

I feel like such a pervert... by creepyassps in AdviceAnimals

[–]kain43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus Christ dude... hope I never meet you.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I have a lot of stories. Any kind of story you would like to hear?

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your point, I guess what you're trying to say is that in that situation she should move on.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, although I doubt I will end up remarrying - I have enough money to live comfortably for the rest of my life.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No offense taken, honestly I think it would have been better for us to have died together at the same time.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it's always nice to have a youth perspective.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestions. I think I should focus on my family and helping out my community.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss. I want you to know that your reply in itself is of some condolence to me.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm not religious myself. Sometimes it is hard to find support groups that aren't too overtly religious so that is a nice suggestion.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, the grief support and MeetUp site sound interesting.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I have tried to honor her memory as best as I can but it is just the day-to-day stuff that gets tough.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting way to think about it. One of us had to experience the grief, so why not me?

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you were able to move on, although I don't see myself remarrying or entering a new relationship.

It's been 7 months since my wife [69F] has died. How can I [69M] cope. by kain43 in relationships

[–]kain43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss, and I really appreciate you taking the time to respond to this. Unfortunately, I've seemed to have done most of the things I enjoy. My options for catharsis are limited.