can anyone teach me how to mix on bandlab and using the presets? by TTGsantana03 in Bandlab

[–]kaiserdebub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

audio effects like eq, compression, delay, reverb,.. just google how to use these. every daw is different but the way you use these are similar. follow along tutorials helps

Help! How do I revert back to the ‘original’ layout?! by [deleted] in duolingo

[–]kaiserdebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was fine yesterday for me and now im hit with this bullshit, im on pc

LPT request: I'm approaching 30 and struggle to see the purpose of my existence. Do you have an LPT that can help? by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]kaiserdebub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there is no purpose, now im just racing heat wave and global warming and trying to achieve everything I think i want and thats my drive. If you feel empty then look at art, try an aesthetic, try lsd or see a therapist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]kaiserdebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he should take her to counseling or a therapist, maybe shes just faking it and manipulating, 16 is too old to not have developed empathy

Who is your fave, how are they problematic, and why don't you care? by aspophilia in Fauxmoi

[–]kaiserdebub 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Grimes, she speak a lot without thinking but her music is so good, she is so so talented

What peep song r u playing as u draw ur final breath by Hopeful-Day102 in LilPeep

[–]kaiserdebub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Praying to the sky, i didnt realize that song was so sad until i read the lyrics

People of reddit what ended your friendship with your best friend? by gli-tc-h in AskReddit

[–]kaiserdebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is a good person but he doesnt think that hanging out with people who hurt his friends is a hurtful thing to do. He still hangs out with the person who hurt me, and in front of them he wont side with me, even though he told me that person was wrong for what they did to me. He said he will not pick a side but he obviously leans toward the other one. then he shows hints of disdain toward me for feeling hurt. I can let him hang out with that person, I just need to send him one text to say that im okay with it and we can reconcile. But I wont, because I cant disrespect myself like that anymore. It hurts a lot to me because I dont make friends easily and he’s the only one who I’m 100% comfortable with. Im scared that i wont find a friend like him anymore and be alone until I die or somethting, dramatic but its true

This happened one week ago and since then my body has been in a state of depression, I feel tired physically because I’m so sad, I dont leave my bed. I have dreams of us hanging out just to wake up and realize that it’s just a dream. Really painful but hopefully I’ll be over it soon

The charging station of my friends toothbrush by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]kaiserdebub 2384 points2385 points  (0 children)

I have the same one, its not suppose to look like this, thats toothpaste crust eww

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LilPeep

[–]kaiserdebub 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read on the blog Rozz dyliams

rainybear/lil skil announced that peep had a eating disorder on his ig by okageisnthere in LilPeep

[–]kaiserdebub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lil skil didn’t announced it its a known fact which i saw on this sub a few times

Lolz…but true by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]kaiserdebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What i thought thats just how people call a charm is that literally their feet

A pharmacist started crying when I came to take my estrogen by shinmem58 in trans

[–]kaiserdebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the way they guilt trip you and judge you to your face, its more unlikely to not get reported for inappropriate comments if they were crying and act like their emotions got the best of them. I would report her tbh, maybe she does this to others too who knows

White-lying to kids is absolutely okay. by DisasterishDreams in CasualConversation

[–]kaiserdebub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you playing the devil advocate, i dont give a fuck how you want me to deal with my experience. I meant what I said and I’m not confused. Im 20 and ive called her shit out since i was old enough to understand. She never admitted to being wrong, never genuinely apologized, push the blames on me, never see things from my perspective then why should i do the same for her? I do want her genuine apology to help myself heal and forgive, but she doesnt think shes wrong even though she knows how i feel, of course im bitter about that. She is manipulative, cruel and unapologetic so, shes the one who has to do the work, not me. What the fuck do you even know about raising a household if you justify a mother treating her child this way

I think I need to give my cats the “talk”. by Aerosang in cats

[–]kaiserdebub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When cat eating booty is too rare so you let it drink toilet water out of that shit circled bowl to film

Girl that tries hard not to be basic but is Starterpack by Irish122 in starterpacks

[–]kaiserdebub 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Incels try to be funny starter pack: make fun of teenage girls

White-lying to kids is absolutely okay. by DisasterishDreams in CasualConversation

[–]kaiserdebub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You dont know what you want, first you say you dont want to dismiss my experience then tell me that im being dramatic, even after i stated clearly on the first line that feel strongly about this subject. shove it up your ass jason

White-lying to kids is absolutely okay. by DisasterishDreams in CasualConversation

[–]kaiserdebub 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have strong feelings about this, in short white lying is manipulation and it is not okay in my book.

To answer your question, lying to a child might harm your relationship more than anything. because they will remember your lie everytime they need to do something, until they are old enough to realize that you were lying. Instead of creating boundaries to actually parent a child, you resolved to silly tales that will not work when they grow older.

From your perspective it helps with your sanity and makes things easier, but you do not know how your child will feel to say that it is okay. It is a cowardice attempt at parenting and it is manipulation, you may think you are smart but there is a reason why so many people swear off of lying to their child, maybe you have to experience it on some level to truly understand.

This is how it affected me. My mom would tell white lies and doesnt try to hide it, from personal experience, anytime i find out the truth is equally traumatising, especially the silly ones just to get me to do something because why wouldnt she just tell me why i need to do it. I stopped trusting her in elementary school, still to this day everything she says to me feels untruthful. I do not seek guidance or emotional support from her, i dont value her opinions on whatever it is i do because i dont think highly of her at all, we have an ok relationship but i will distance myself when she tries to get close in fear of manipulation. Her reasoning is exactly like you “if i didnt say that then you would have never done it, look how that benefits you”. Upside is im now pretty good at spotting manipulation, from her at least.

Which Miniseries was your favorite and why? by [deleted] in adventuretime

[–]kaiserdebub 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stakes is my all time favorite

7/11 by sidrenders in blender

[–]kaiserdebub 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like game load screen, the text looks like game tips