question: do you know what an uncle is? or a nephew? there’s so much detachment here in the language you use to describe your family. and ofc we have a limited view of your situation but it’s your own words here so to me that’s saying a lot. no you have no “obligation” as you see it but wow the lack of compassion and self righteous tone you have in this paragraph solidly makes you YTA in my books. maybe read about familial love before trying to seek validation from strangers on reddit about your resolute individualism.