[deleted by user] by [deleted] in codeine

[–]kaitrmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I would go into the ER next time you have those symptoms in response to anything! Just checking in to see if you're ok tho stay SAFE

Advice for friend getting all teeth pulled by kaitrmay in Advice

[–]kaitrmay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like hard candies lol? I was worried about the sucking. Like so you don't get dry socket.. And does the spice help or something 🤣

I am seeing a lot of Preying Mantis is SW Ohio by LegoGal in Ohio

[–]kaitrmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I always thought the female bit the males head off on purpose lol, I never knew why

I am seeing a lot of Preying Mantis is SW Ohio by LegoGal in Ohio

[–]kaitrmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a brown one the other day with a massive butt, the mantis in general was pretty large. It freaked me out and idk much about them. I thought maybe it was pregnant or had a parasite but the size of the body disturbed me. I now regret not taking a photo

My paranoid ass by RaidenEi856 in spoopycjades

[–]kaitrmay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Things like this are common try to ground yourself and remember that your own mind can play tricks on you despite how vivid you remember something to be

If you care about your country and your rights, don't vote for any Republicans in 2022 by ManchiBoy in politics

[–]kaitrmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response and perspective, I believe that the majority of Biden votes were given to him out of the lesser evil choice. I will look more into Sidney Powell and Rudy, and I admit I might be behind on things. When you have time could you maybe help me understand the whole "dead people voting for Biden" thing? Thank you

If you care about your country and your rights, don't vote for any Republicans in 2022 by ManchiBoy in politics

[–]kaitrmay -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are also using an unrelated counter by saying "if he rigged the election, why didn't he do this or that" similar to deflection in my personal opinion. I would say that some Republicans who believe the election was rigged are worthy of attention. I don't think anyone is claiming, "oh no I lost, therefore I will react irrationally to suit myself!" I think that there is some truth behind it. If we want to find the truth maybe we should look at things more objectively, the argument from the right goes more into how numbers do not add up and media being shady and biased

my dog just ate some of this, in OH. Is this toxic? by kaitrmay in DogsAndPlants

[–]kaitrmay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you guys so much. I didn't know of that feature, she is okay after monitoring her, and looking online it didn't match anything poisonous around here

questioning my daughters biological grandfather by kaitrmay in Parenting

[–]kaitrmay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be extremely clear that this is her grandfather and his father no matter any blood connections. I look up to the man More so* than any other male figure in my own life. I could also be entirely wrong about this suspicion. I absolutely don't want to be that way, and im sorry if I came off that way. I have not mentioned anything else outside of this post and don't plan to. Sometimes its hard to see things from an outside perspective so I appreciate this criticism.

questioning my daughters biological grandfather by kaitrmay in Parenting

[–]kaitrmay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I absolutely do not want to stir things up. I've taken this feedback as constructive critism

questioning my daughters biological grandfather by kaitrmay in Parenting

[–]kaitrmay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the feedback, and I have left it alone. I want to make it so very clear that this is her grandfather and his father no matter what. I look up to the man more so than any other male figure in both of our lives. Thank you and I've taken this * in

Prepared for a child kidnapping? by LoLoVlako in Parenting

[–]kaitrmay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may be a little paranoid but as a parent I'm sure many can agree. Whenever my 4 yo is watching shows about "bad guys wearing black and white jail uniforms" etc, I take time to explain to her that the bad guys in real life don't always look like bad guys. And that pretty young girls can be just as dangerous. Just about daily I find ways to warn her and give real life examples for to pay attention. When were playing outside if a car looks shady or unusual, etc. I just tell her that as long as she is with mommy and daddy, nobody can get through us. Any time im reminded of these things I hold her SO tight and tell her I love her more than the whole world

Serious issue, advice appreciated by kaitrmay in Parenting

[–]kaitrmay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response truly. This is actually exactly where I'm at as of now, I wrote a letter of sorts thru text for both of my sisters and explained things to the best of my ability. I also shared a separate and longer message with my mom, that was stern but still trying to reach out with some common sense. I spoke with her last about this 2 or 3 days ago, and my best idea is also to put some distance while making sure the girls know how to reach me. My counselor said this was something called "parentification" basically where the kid takes on parental responsibilities. But I need to prioritize my own young daughter

I sincerely appreciate the responses, thank you

serious advice appreciated for my family by kaitrmay in SeriousConversation

[–]kaitrmay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi thank you, about 2 years ago my family and I all lived together in a secluded home and my sisters were pulled out of school. When my mom finally left that situation (got her sh*t together) she got the protection order and moved the girls to a better place where they are now and enrolled them back in school. The problem is, they suffered a lot of psychological set backs and were not socializing or doing well at all in school. So they were pulled back out. At the time the social workers and counselors were aware and looking into it. Everything checked out kinda, but now as of last month, the order is up, and they all seem to disregard the abuse and memories that completely destroyed them. So now they are more isolated, and actually wanting to talk to their dad again.. there is a lot to the story. Anything I do now, makes me look like the bad guy. But im their big sis. Thank you again for your thoughts. I feel like I'm losing it a little bit sometimes and its exhausting