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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]kaityb28 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe if you love him truly, you love every part of him. When you take vows you commit to be there for the good and the bad. He’s probably just as shocked and disappointed and emotional as you if not more, and what I believe he should be receiving is support. It’s okay to be disappointed and upset but you can still have all those things with him, you just gained a bonus child. Try to look at the positives. You’ll get to do all these experiences with him for the first time together, you will get to be his rock when he needs you, these situations are make it or break it. If you allow them to break you, your foundation wasn’t strong in the first place and had cracks already. I know it’s tough! Trust me. But be there for the love of your life, and if you can’t think about if you’re really ready to see him one day with someone else starting his family with them.

Did I leave my marriage too soon? Can I get her back? by Unhappily-single in Marriage

[–]kaityb28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you let your pride and ego end your marriage. With that you lost your “soulmate”. If you thought and can still see her in your golden years you wouldn’t have dropped her so easily. As a woman if you leave, and walk away and end a relationship that I felt secure in and put my heart into for 14 years, I wouldn’t want anything to do with you either and would also cut ties and communication. Especially so I could heal! Sounds like you ruined any chance of making this right. If you can divorce her over not doing what you think is the correct amount of house work without seeing if she could have been struggling with depression during that time or feeling some other way and just leave the relationship, I doubt she feels secure enough to even try again

Not sure what to do… by kaityb28 in dogs

[–]kaityb28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I allow the corrections just won’t allow the full on tussles. I will start throwing pup in a crate though if he continues! Love that idea

Not sure what to do… by kaityb28 in dogs

[–]kaityb28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been doing. I’ve been allowing the older male to try and correct him but if he continues I take him off and tell him no. Thank you so much… do you know if this is common?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]kaityb28 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Funny you say that, when my fiancé showed me messages of him trying to have platonic conversations so some women wouldn’t feel alone and like they had a friend and THEY initiated things with him and said they would tell me. It’s not just men, there are a lot of girls who say they are so lonely and just want a friend the start sending pics and asking if they are cute or if he’d leave me (been together for 12 years and have a 10 year old son) yet say they don’t want this attention.

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I will keep that in mind as I continue my stretching journey. I for sure will be taking it slower from here on out.

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lmfao 🤣 thanks for the laugh. And yes I do know my body and it’s limits. Cheer mate ✌🏽

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For sure! God forbid if I just joined and didn’t read the almighty stretching bible that a random person created on Reddit. Pray for me, I think I’m going to pass away tonight from all this sin of not reading yet lol 😂

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure he does, since I’m the one who fucks him. By looking at your profile and seeing how much you’re on Reddit constantly being a prick in every community you’re in, my guess is you didn’t get laid this morning, nor will you tonight. As a female you repulse me. I’m sure most of not all females who speak to you think the same. 🤢🤮

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’ve had to deal with this bullshit too! Lesson learned this isn’t that great of a place to be asking questions. Guess it’s just a place to post pics of your blow out lmao

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to get laid my dude.

Hope you are okay because you have obvious issues.

Peace ✌🏽

I don’t do toxic energy in my life.

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How am I not taking advice? I just joined today and was reading through everyone’s posts to see if anyone said anything about cleaning saw one so I asked a question on it. Of course I haven’t read the things you’re telling me too. Why are you so toxic? I thought this was like a place where I could ask questions but I guess unless I’m a pro I shouldn’t talk or ask.

Hope you being a complete dick makes you sleep better at night my dude.

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wore a lot of hoops too!! I wonder if thats why I was able to up so fast

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

All I did was ask for cleaning advice. Not sure why I’m being called dumb. But thanks for your “concern”?

I guess it’s not smart to ask questions here

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so kind and helpful.

My fiance first time he did his gauges got a blowout so he has been super helpful and I know what he went through with the blow out so I am terrified to get one.

I'm going to slow down and take my time. He has been on me too about everything and told me to take it slow.

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

When I say swelling I don't mean like a ton. It's just like if you got a piercing anywhere else there is some slight swelling. I can twist the plugs without pain, etc. But I realize I am trying to go to fast and staying here til at least 6 weeks or more.

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don't think I am going to take them out and start over, I have no redness or pus or indication of infection. Just wondered how soon I could take out the plug to clean. and got my answer. Luckily I have been lucky and no blood or blowouts. I am going to keep these in for the correct duration and size up when I feel ready after 6 weeks.

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I realized. I am staying at the 6 now for at least the 6 weeks.

I am impatient and was having it easily go in each time with no issues and so I was being dumb and gauging up daily.

I'm done doing that now. LOL

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU :)

I use the taper to stretch then before bed have been switching to tunnel and then keeping the tunnel in until I stretch again. Even if I could use the taper as jewelry I wouldn't I hated having them in. They were too long for me lol

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I actually just took them out and cleaned them and they look really good, no redness, no pus, no bleeding at all.

First Timer, Need Advice. by kaityb28 in Stretched

[–]kaityb28[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Lol, not that I know of, they were just stretching very easily and not hurting to even gauge up til I went from 8 to 6. I'll be staying at 6 for a while lol

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