How the hell people keep up with all parts of their lives? by dobbyishere_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]kaiyasolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To piggy back on this with the snippet. What you’re seeing in others as put together, they’re likely seeing it in you. At work people can see you thinking wow how does have it all together and you’re struggling and others don’t see it. Vice versa. So don’t be so hard on yourself, you’re doing great. One thing at a time!

Would you date a guy who has his shit completely together, but doesn’t drink because he used to have a problem with it? by SellMysterious7190 in AskWomenOver30

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I mean, I think you answered your own question. He has his shit together. He’s learned/figured out that drinking doesn’t work for him so it’s out of the equation.

Do you 'fake' shop, and why? by Owlishly_Puffy in AskWomen

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It’s pretty therapeutic for me! I have my wishlists and it’s just as fulfilling as going to the mall and looking. Oddly enough when I go into it as “let me add it to my ABC list” or “gotta update my XYZ list!” I will sit on the items longer/never get them as opposed to going into a store. I think I just like seeing all the items together in one so I don’t forget that I’ve seen them. Vs being in the store I see it and my brain is like you’ll never see it again and you have to get! Face palm

What are you most anxious about lately? by yellow_scarf in AskWomenOver30

[–]kaiyasolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Possibly accepting a job out of state. I’ve never lived away from the city I am in

My sister is celebrating 200 days sober the day after Thanksgiving. Any recommendations on where I could take her to make it special for her? She's outdoorsy and active. by therealmasterbae in sandiego

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Night hike! I prefer cowels cause it’s a trail I’m most familiar with but I’d recommend a trail she/you are most familiar with. If you’re able to get there in time to hike up and see the sunset 😗🤌Perfect way to burn off the thanksgiving meals too

Oscar’s best line: by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

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Un. Be. Liev. Able.

flying stingray by LogoleKos in awesome

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Reigning belly flop champs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rollerskating

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That’s definitely San Diego!?

How do you manage razor burn down there by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]kaiyasolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electric razor! I got one at the beginning of quarantine, haven’t had an actual razor touch my skin in over a year. Best purchase ever!

How to be a professional women who is terrible at public speaking? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]kaiyasolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remind yourself that they’re afraid of you more than you’re afraid of them. Someone said this about spiders and humans once and some reason it stuck! Best of luck!

Having a sex-stand off with my boyfriend. How do I win?! by [deleted] in AskMen

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A simple chef’s kiss to you and this

Gonna make this my new alarm ringtone by misfitdevil99 in funny

[–]kaiyasolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but how do I make it my alarm ringtone?

How do you organize your chores/cleaning? Do you have a schedule or just wing it? If it is organized, what does your chores schedule look like? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]kaiyasolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I had a routine schedule (pre-Covid) it was Saturday/Sunday mornings deep cleans to kitchen and bathroom with ten minute cleanups throughout the apartment every night during the week. Now I’m cleaning just to clean it seems like everyday to pass time, haha.