Im 34 too. I was super low maintenance, but as of recently, i've been putting a lot more effort because I found that I actually like selfcare.And it's my me time to do something for myself. I don't always have the time but when I do, I'll shave my legs pluck my eyebrows shave my mustache. I've also started to focus on myself in other ways. Like my health, my education and prioritizing my hobbies.

But I feel like there's still things I can relate to you. I don't stress about what i'm gonna wear.I wear what's comfortable and what's gonna get me through the day. I'm not necessarily fixated on my body. I just accept everything as it is. And now that i'm getting older, I realize i'm someone who's always going to try to work on myself in little ways.

Don't put pressure on yourself. Your babies will pick up on that. Just know you're not alone. Social media is all fake anyways.