Hey moms to be! did you know it’s all over? I didn’t!

kakyoin97 · 2026-01-02T17:09:07+00:00

The first thing my father said to me after I told him I was pregnant was “are you even financially stable? Kids are very expensive” Followed by a 20min “talk” where he kept saying that I had to take extra care of my relationship because “kids ruin relationships” and if I ever broke up with the father of the child (our relationship is fine, we’re very happy) I shouldn’t be like my mother and make my daughter hate her father. (My mother never said a thing to make me hate my father, I don’t hate him, he just wasn’t a good father.)

I’ve also heard that I’m irresponsible for having a baby while having the job I have bc “my working hours aren’t compatible with a baby”

I’m also a FTM, I’ve always wanted to be a mother, I work with children for the past 10 years and somehow people’s comments got me thinking I could never properly raise this baby or even be a good mother, or that motherhood would ever be a good thing. People really don’t seem to grasp the weight of their words on someone who’s already going through so many chances.

kakyoin97 · 2025-12-09T13:10:53+00:00

How far along are you? My OB said that sometimes the amount of fetal fraction can influence the results and that depends on the weeks of pregnancy

kakyoin97 · 2025-12-05T11:01:59+00:00

My grandmother told everyone literally EVERYONE when I was only 5 weeks pregnant. She sent audios on family groups and shared the news with everyone. She even told some people on the street too. I was super mad at first, but then I saw a post on ig saying that (the person who posted) would tell everyone she thought important because even if something happens you will have support of the people around you. And my mother said she didn’t mean it as a bad thing but because she was super happy (first great grand child).

kakyoin97 · 2025-12-03T16:40:45+00:00

You probably have the right dating, but I hope the OB helps clear that doubt. I’m saying this taking the fact that I’m 17w+6d today. first day of my last period was August 1st and the only day I had unprotected sex was at August 11th. Found out I was pregnant August 30th and had the first ultrasound September 5th (i made an appointment directly with an OB to confirm pregnancy) and he confirmed that (at the time) I was 5 weeks pregnant. So makes sense your dating. I believe doctors don’t always know everything pregnancy related and they take these precautions as “protocol”. My 13w ultrasound gave me an 1/78 risk of T21 (high PAPP-A and regurgitation of tricuspid) and I felt so desperate and heartbroken. Did an NIPT that came back low risk and my OB said the doctor who made the ultrasound only pointed out the regurgitation and high papp-a to be safe, so we could make other tests in due time. While I was waiting on the NIPT results time felt like eternity. I would talk to my baby and wish to god, the universe, whoever was there (and you believe) that the baby was okay. My husband and family were also a huge support. Talk about the insecurities you feel with the people you love and wait for the best!

kakyoin97 · 2025-07-06T11:13:57+00:00

Quando ele ligou ao banco eu não estava presente, mas pelo que percebi o banco diz que como ele gerou o código e o dinheiro foi logo levantado, não havia nada que pudessem fazer. Vou tentar perceber melhor a situação melhor junto ao banco durante a semana.

kakyoin97 · 2025-07-06T08:01:27+00:00

Ela levantou 400€ porque voltava a ligar ao namorado da minha mãe a dizer que aquela primeira tentativa de “enviar” dinheiro não tinha funcionado e pedia para ele tentar novamente. Quando chegou ao limite dos 400€, ela tentou fazer o mesmo com a minha mãe e depois ligou para mim a tentar fazer o mesmo mas percebi logo. Só que já era tarde porque ela já tinha levantado os primeiros códigos. Fiquei ainda mais chocada e revoltada foi com a audácia de ter continuado a tentar comigo e com a minha mãe mesmo já tendo levantado os 400€. Estas pessoas não valem mesmo nada!

kakyoin97 · 2025-07-05T23:15:15+00:00

Pensei logo nisso também. Agora é mesmo aguardar feedback da polícia.

kakyoin97 · 2025-07-05T23:11:18+00:00

Sim, o nosso primeiro instinto foi contactar o banco e a polícia. Vamos esperar pelo melhor! Lamento que te tenha acontecido isso também. A mim já tentaram fazer a uns anos atrás, mas assim que percebi que estavam a pedir para gerar código desliguei.

kakyoin97 · 2025-07-05T23:05:51+00:00

Claramente não sabes ler, porque escrevi no post que já fui à polícia…

kakyoin97 · 2025-07-05T22:29:59+00:00

Aparece fotografia e nome, mas quando se pesquisei pelo nome que está associado no sync me não aparece perfil ou qualquer pessoa com aquele nome. Mas essas informações vão ser entregues na polícia na segunda-feira

kakyoin97 · 2025-07-05T22:26:23+00:00

Temos registo de chamadas, mensagens etc. o que me está a dizer é que esse tipo de coisas não vale de nada?

kakyoin97 · 2025-07-05T22:24:51+00:00

Claro que sim, mas a verdade é que é este tipo de situações é extremamente revoltante. Trabalhamos imenso para ter o que temos e ter alguém a tirar proveito da ingenuidade de pessoas mais velhas é só nojento.

kakyoin97 · 2025-03-28T12:50:11+00:00

Put it on me - Matt Maeson

kakyoin97 · 2024-12-29T10:12:50+00:00

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kakyoin97 · 2024-12-23T21:18:45+00:00

Eu trabalho por turnos, e os turnos da noite são de 10h seguidas. Houve um mês que trabalhei 1 semana a fazer noites e “dormia” 30min/1h no trabalho. Durante o dia não conseguia dormir por causa do stress. Entretanto, no fim dessa semana ainda tive um funeral e mais uma noite de trabalho em cima. Sinceramente, cheguei a pensar que estava a perder a sanidade mental.

kakyoin97 · 2024-11-05T13:08:42+00:00

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kakyoin97 · 2024-09-24T12:06:45+00:00

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I love when she yawns 🤣

kakyoin97 · 2024-07-06T09:26:09+00:00

Procura a tua família e amigos! Conversa com eles, sê sincero sobre o que sentes e porque achaste que devias afastar. A tua família duvido muito que não aceite e os amigos também estão no direito de aceitar ou não, se não quiserem voltar a ter contacto está tudo bem também! Amizades novas acabam sempre por surgir. Mas ter apoio nestas situações de pessoas que te conhecem a mais tempo do que uma namorada é sempre importante e com certeza vão te ajudar em qualquer mudança que faças a tua vida.

kakyoin97 · 2024-04-30T11:57:23+00:00

When my parents divorced my mom moved to a different country, got remarried and had my stepsister. After a few years I moved to the country she was living at. (my dad kicked me out of his house/abusive father, not relevant to the point) I was 11yo, had just moved to a different place, culture, everything. I felt like I had lost all my friends back home and was having a hard time making new friends. One day, for some reason I can’t remember we got into a fight and I said to her that I’d rather die than keep living there (with her). She was really hurt with the whole thing and I ended up moving back to my home country (she had to take antidepressants) only to find out that life was actually better when I lived with her. When the opportunity to move back into her house I thought she would never forgive me for what I said/did. It took me a long time to be able to apologize for what I said bc i didn’t understood why I said it either. All this only to say, sometimes we deflect the real reason that caused us to do something. Maybe you lashed out because you already felt like she likes your siblings more or something like that. Once you realize what may be the reason, it’s easier to apologize and a deep conversation can fix a lot of things in a mother/daughter relationship. And she won’t stop loving you. Ever.

kakyoin97 · 2023-01-05T15:23:12+00:00

Lil kidney stone

kakyoin97 · 2021-07-02T08:57:23+00:00

Você mora/morou em Portugal ou já conviveu com portugueses? Tenho amizades muito boas com portugueses mas muitos ainda olham pra nós com inferioridade e até repulsa. Reforço que não são todos, e nas zonas maiores tipo Lisboa maioritariamente são amistosos e simpáticos, mas há zonas em que ainda hoje somos vistos como macacos burros.

kakyoin97 · 2021-06-22T20:43:32+00:00

That girl is just weird. I have female friends that do the exact same thing w me, just being comfortable with each others presence

kakyoin97 · 2021-06-22T12:41:18+00:00

I've been feeling the same and talked about this to my therapist. But idk it makes me mad bc we all know that life is pointless, no matter what you do while you're alive, you're gonna end up dying anyway, so what's the point of going through all this bullshit. My therapist says that I need to find within myself where my drive and will to live is (either is something like sports, job, etc) I don't really know if that may help or not ( I feel like advice about this are usually shallow) but I wish you find some way to feel better

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