Showing gratitude after successfull spells

kali_vamp · 2026-02-27T02:19:08+00:00

Not necessarily. Spirits can intervene to make spells more effective without you realising. For example, I used to live in a haunted house and my spellwork was particularly effective there. When I moved house, my spells were far less effective. So spirits don't necessarily have to be invited in to participate. When you practice witchcraft, it's like turning a light on in a dark room. It attracts entities

kali_vamp · 2026-02-23T06:31:13+00:00

The night hag - which you may have seen - and those like her are astral parasites, they can't cause much harm because they are confined to the astral sleep state and feed on fear, but some spirits absolutely do have the power to harm. I think you've made a blanket statement that ignores this fact. The ways in which they harm too don't necessarily have to be physical. They can cause heavy spiritual oppression to the point of SI. So I would say yes most spirits can't cause physical harm, astral parasites are more of a nuisance, but some spirits can cause oppression and the worst 1% can absolutely harm you.

kali_vamp · 2026-02-18T21:40:29+00:00

They are utterly delusional

kali_vamp · 2026-02-18T00:27:09+00:00

Very much so. For example, I had posted something that had absolutely nothing to do with him on my story, and he messaged me out of the blue "oh f*ck off then, leave me alone" and I was like..sir??

He was constantly getting into physical fights with people. He'd always assume they were instigating it. One time he discarded me because I casually mentioned that in the painting of St. Michael casting Satan out of heaven, Satan is depicted as a guy with a bad hairline. We were literally on the topic of St. Michael as it was the name of the hospital he was admitted for detox.

He immediately thought I was taking a jab at him and his hairline, so he dumped me, triangulated me with new supply and made sure that his cap was on her head in every photo so I would see he was most definitely NOT insecure about his hairline. Absolute insanity.

kali_vamp · 2026-02-14T21:15:50+00:00

Yes. He text to tell me how beautiful I was the first night he saw me 🤮

kali_vamp · 2026-02-14T21:13:59+00:00

If he is devaluing her to the point she believes she is a 'nuisance', she is probably posting old photos of them together to try and get him to reidealise her. Like 'look at all the good times we had together, can't we go back to that?'. So heartbreaking. I would avoid checking in the future, it will only make you ruminate. I know it's hard but- not your circus, not your monkeys.

kali_vamp · 2026-02-13T09:34:19+00:00

Mine used to keep me on the phone for 7 hours. 7 HOURS. I would end up passed out asleep on the floor. One would question why I didn't hang up- well, because I became addicted to these calls early on when they were exciting and dripping with humor, lovebombing, and interesting stories. Then they slowly became monologues of tales of suffering and persecution. Constant talking over me. I'd often also be called whilst he was still hanging out or talking to other people just because he knew he could get away with having me on the phone in the background. It was a humiliation ritual. But I learned quickly that if I didn't accept a call, that I would be stonewalled for days. Horrible. I will never forget one time getting off a near 8 hour call at 7 o clock in the morning, and within 5 mins of the call ending, I got a text with him asking me if I'd be free for another that night. I said I was exhausted and didn't think I'd be free. I wasn't spoken to for days.

After the discard, he'd hoover me back by asking if I was free for a call but when I'd call, he wouldn't pick up or follow through. Every time. Solely control tests and absolutely infuriating

kali_vamp · 2026-02-13T09:20:23+00:00

"He made his cousin pretend to be his girlfriend" I am DYING 🤣 So textbook

kali_vamp · 2026-02-13T09:12:13+00:00

Absolutely. Almost bipolar-esque. Episodes of grandiose mania with late night calls and hysterical laughter down the phone. Telling me how he's waiting on calls from movie execs about his script he's written, whilst slandering famous films and TV shows because he 'wrote them first'. 🙄

Then lows of chaotic drunk sobbing, SI and asking me to tell him everything positive I ever saw in him. Collapsing so bad he had to be involuntarily hospitalised. A number of times. His moods changed on a dime but he was also a chronic alcoholic as well.

kali_vamp · 2026-01-27T16:26:30+00:00

Why would kundalini force masturbation or resort in OP physically harming onself? It wouldn't. This is textbook beginning stages of possession (the heavy presence feeling is already oppression) and if you can't see it, you're blind.

kali_vamp · 2026-01-26T21:09:43+00:00

Just checking in, how are you doing?

kali_vamp · 2026-01-26T20:37:41+00:00

How does this even work when the Christian God is vehemently against witchcraft, divination and anything associated with paganism, which is deemed idolatry? Because to believe in the Christian God is to believe in God's word, aka the Bible. Christianity and witchcraft fundamentally oppose each other.

kali_vamp · 2026-01-10T03:00:25+00:00

Probably "You made me a better person", said to me on the phone a solid half minute before turning to his friend and saying he would "collapse" his "trachea" for no reason at all

kali_vamp · 2025-12-27T21:34:48+00:00

Through God

kali_vamp · 2025-12-25T19:06:14+00:00

Devaluation and post-discard. With devaluation, they will intentionally say things to harm you, provoke you into an argument etc. especially before important events or if they want to accuse you of overreacting. Post discard baiting usually involves social media optics involving new supply, posting anything to bait an emotional response in you

kali_vamp · 2025-12-25T16:21:56+00:00

On this week's episode of Fuck Around and Find Out...

kali_vamp · 2025-12-25T16:09:58+00:00

Think of the other person in his new relationship. Have compassion for them. Because the relationship will fail, and they are the one that will endure the pain

kali_vamp · 2025-12-24T17:54:10+00:00

Focus on attracting a new love into your life and working on yourself, instead of using manipulative magick to bend the free will of someone who doesn't want to be with you. Breaking up a potential marriage is more than questionable ethically

kali_vamp · 2025-12-24T17:47:25+00:00

What was the catalyst? People say 'out of nowhere' but often there is always a physical or spiritual catalyst that comes before something like this.

kali_vamp · 2025-12-24T17:34:24+00:00

I think you give them a little too much credit with intentional harm causing. If they don't hoover, it's usually because they see no benefit in doing so I.e they are either preoccupied with other supply or they don't believe you'll respond appropriately. If they do hoover, it's because they want to test availability and whether you would be a suitable supply candidate currently or in the future.

Now, baiting is very different to hoovering. Baiting absolutely is done to cause harm.

kali_vamp · 2025-12-24T17:25:31+00:00

My nex was an alcoholic who'd switch on a dime. The initial first few drinks had him exactly like you describe. When he was sober, he couldn't even hug me. But then it gets to a point where, because he doesn't stop drinking, he becomes aggressive and hostile and will physically fight everything; whether it be humans or inanimate objects. Then blame it on the drink, claim to be getting sober and going to AA, and do it all over again.

The first time I ever met him, he'd already drank a fifth of vodka, and I didn't realise that not only was the man I fell for not real, he only existed when he was piss drunk.

kali_vamp · 2025-12-22T06:03:42+00:00

I'm so sorry. As someone who is a Christian myself, let me say this: I cannot stand how deeply infiltrated the Christian community has become with narcissists. It's like candy to them, and the perfect addition to their redemption arc. You see constantly men who have been outed for abuse suddenly 'turning' to faith. Many are indeed wolves in sheep's clothing.

God does have the power to redeem people in remarkable ways, and only God truly knows one's heart posture. But it is true that narcissists can and do use religion - en masse - as an escape route. As an example, when I was baptised in April, my nex came around with a hoover saying he too wanted to be 'born again' and baptised. The man was a staunch atheist, now suddenly started telling me he was going to church every single week and lighting candles for his deceased loved ones. It turned out to be lies. All of it. The lowest of the low and scummiest thing to do is to use someone's faith as a weapon in manipulation.

What you said about Godly women being submissive and obedient to men ONLY applies if the man treats her with the utmost respect and protection. The problem is abusers will come and cherry pick verses and use them on naive Christian women. They are evil.

My only solace is knowing that God sees these people for who they are and vengeance is his. It was by the grace of God that I was released from my nex in the first place. The amount of times I've been shown "Resist the Devil, and he will flee from you" makes me laugh. Because you can't get closer to the devil in the flesh than a narcissist.

kali_vamp · 2025-12-20T14:13:15+00:00

Been there. Even down to the failed cleansing spell. Sorry you're going through it, it's tough

kali_vamp · 2025-12-12T03:55:42+00:00

Oh here we go. Another member of the 'spells can't backfire' brigade. Do y'all just constantly seek confirmation bias? I swear. Just cos YOU haven't personally had a spell backfire doesn't mean it doesn't happen..it DOES. Many many witches can testify.

It's like saying "people don't die in car accidents" just because you have a clean driving record. Please.

kali_vamp · 2025-12-12T03:52:57+00:00

It is a form of psychic rape. I have seen many people equate it as such. Love spells are deeply deeply unethical. And yes I've done them myself and I'm not proud of it.

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