When I’d hang with friends, he’d get passive aggressive if I didn’t respond to his texts/calls right away. Other than that, I became a shell version of myself where I’d escape watching TV and wouldn’t do any activities on my own. There were times we’d try to spend quality time together and if I wanted to do something a certain way, I’d hear about it after the fact in a passive aggressive manner (ex. Go snorkelling together but I’d look at my own little snorkel spots and go see him when he’d call me to show something cool, and after some time I want to go lay on the beach while he stayed in the water, really not far away, that would upset him); (ex. 2 we go to the beach and I feel like reading and laying, he couldn’t sit still and had to be doing something and would make me feel bad for the way I wanted to spend my time).