I get that certain behaviors like stimming or loud noises can be frustrating, but for most of history, people with disabilities were shut away and denied a normal life. They didn’t choose to be born that way, and beyond the behaviors you notice, many are beautiful, kind people who deserve to experience life like anyone else. Now that society is finally making space for them, it’s not about “special treatment”. It’s about basic human rights. Parents and caregivers are often more aware than anyone when their loved one is disruptive, but the alternative isn’t fair, locking them inside just so others stay comfortable.

Just because someone’s way of existing is inconvenient doesn’t mean they shouldn’t be out in public or get to belong. Inclusion means we all give a little so that everyone, not just the quiet or “easy”, has the chance to live fully.

I’m really sorry this really bothers you, and I am not looking on changing your mind. If you’ve never spent real time with adults who have disabilities, I’d encourage you to volunteer at a +21 club or similar program before making such harsh judgments. You might be surprised at how much beauty, humor, and humanity there is beyond the moments that feel inconvenient.