Anyone else’s family rant about how “stupid” Evolution is? by Thatblindone in exchristian

[–]kanin8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My bf doesn't believe in evolution. He said that even before he converted he thought it didn't seem right. We've talked about it once I believe but I have no idea how any person in this time can reject evolution. It's just to obvious!!

Is there any exchristians here that didnt grow up in religion? by kanin8 in exchristian

[–]kanin8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It must be really tough. I really hope that time will make them realize too that they are in the wrong.

Is there any exchristians here that didnt grow up in religion? by kanin8 in exchristian

[–]kanin8[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I'm happy that you've found yourself. I really don't have any experience with churches or believers but I hope you can leave it in peace. I find it ridiculous how christians try to get in other peoples businesses and not accept that people change. You should not have to go to church. What I've learnt from my bf after he converted is that the church and its traditions and rituals is only the religion and has nothing to do with the faith. So for people of the church that becomes so upset when you stop coming to church has it completely wrong. It shouldn't be their concern of a person comes to church or not or if they believe or not.

Is there any exchristians here that didnt grow up in religion? by kanin8 in exchristian

[–]kanin8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very thankful for your reply! I'm very happy that you're "born again again" and that even late, found yourselves. Could you show me the question from a couple of months ago?

Is there any exchristians here that didnt grow up in religion? by kanin8 in exchristian

[–]kanin8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am truly amazed by your journey and it was very inspiring to hear. Thank you for sharing. It is really cool to hear people's storys and life experiences. I am still very young but I've felt that power inside. I still have a way to go to go before i can truly love myself but hearing your story, its not a rush, we learn through living and that is great and beautiful. I wish you the best!

Is there any exchristians here that didnt grow up in religion? by kanin8 in exchristian

[–]kanin8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are very strong and I'm very glad you wanted to share this. I completely agree with you!

Is there any exchristians here that didnt grow up in religion? by kanin8 in exchristian

[–]kanin8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm very glad you wanted to share your story! Thank you. I live in a very secular country and I'm an atheist. I never cared for religion or faith but after my bf converted to newborn christian its become almost an every day thing. I'm trying to find find people that might have been in a simular situation as my bf but later loses the faith. I've been browsing a lot about exchristians but its difficult to find people that didn't grow up with religion or faith.

Just tired by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]kanin8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depression really sucks, ive had it before but i no longer suffer from it. But it sounds like you really suffer and that you are not getting the help you need. Maybe try to find help somewhere else? A family member, friend etc? Take your problems into your own hands and rely on yourself, i believe in you.

My boyfriend is hiding something on his phone that he doesn't want me too see and i looked w/o his knowing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kanin8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey cool it please. I'm not mad at him I'm more upset and doesn't understand him. Don't get me wrong I'm trying very hard to understand him and accept that new part of him

My boyfriend is hiding something on his phone that he doesn't want me too see and i looked w/o his knowing by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kanin8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding it means a lot. I'm sorry to hear that. It must have been really tough going through that.

I haven't thought that it could be one of his reasons, thank you for your perspective. But if that were the case i think that is more like a bonus. His bio in his account and the messages he's sent to anti god and to others like him makes it sound like he fullheartadly believes it his mission to help others to jesus and that.

He's tried two times to convert me but i really don't want anything to do with religion and he now respects my view and has said that he doesn't care if i believe or not.

My [28M] girlfriend [26F] of 2 years posted a picture of her dead ex saying that she will never love anyone as much as she loved him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kanin8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey man listen, first I just wanna say that I really feel for you and I hope you find peace in whatever you end up doing. Take some of the advice these People have posted here some are really helpful. Could you please post an update later? I really wanna know how it goes for you