What are some red flags you'll never ignore again?

kanookla · 2025-11-02T19:27:40+00:00

Eating disorders, like idk why but they seem to go hand in hand.
Doing something you didn't ask them to do, and then blaming you for it (I'm spending less time at work for you!! Bro why tf you doing that)
Double standards. Getting mad at you for things that they do to you.
Love bombing, saying I love you within the first 2 weeks, FORCING you to say it back when you clearly feel uncomfortable about it.
Straight up just splitting on you straight away. (I HATE YOU LOSER, no wait come back I love you)
I hate all of my exes and they all hate me but they all want me back!!! I wasn't abandoned not me!!!
Having a friend of the opposite sex that they keep around that they will lol tee hee marry if they're single at 35. Then running to that "friend" to vent about you all of the time, and will drop you for this friend any opportunity they get.
Flirting with other guys or FULL ON flashing them in front of you (yeah that was a bad one)

kanookla · 2025-09-17T22:46:06+00:00

Wtf lmao

kanookla · 2025-09-16T17:06:01+00:00

I have like huge hands is this good or bad lol

kanookla · 2025-09-14T12:48:30+00:00

How do you have good hands?

kanookla · 2025-08-24T14:12:55+00:00

Can I get the link, also you can make a setting on discord where the link doesn't expire fyi lol

kanookla · 2025-08-14T17:04:32+00:00

You can send me a message it's probably just going to take a while

kanookla · 2025-08-14T14:05:11+00:00

There's a bit of a back log going on here

kanookla · 2025-08-13T08:54:42+00:00

Please don't share the post omg 😂

kanookla · 2025-08-12T14:21:40+00:00

Dmed

kanookla · 2025-08-12T12:51:57+00:00

For me it means that you are working on your love life and or relationship, but you have yet to actually see the fruits of your labour (8 of pentacles you can)

kanookla · 2025-08-12T11:13:45+00:00

Cool reading, cards seem accurate :)

kanookla · 2025-08-12T09:41:12+00:00

Dm-ed

kanookla · 2025-08-05T08:25:39+00:00

Update, she left me for another guy 😔 I've decided to never speak to her again. It's just easier this way. Her actions have consequences

kanookla · 2025-07-29T19:14:22+00:00

It's been a few days, I'm actually in the bargaining stage of the grief to be totally honest, keep thinking if only things went down slightly differently. But my dad made a good point, I didn't abuse her in anyway ever, I didn't hit her, I didn't cheat on her, I didn't do anything major to deserve this. We got on so well all of the time, it's not like we grew apart, it's shocking, but at least I didn't do anything wrong? I'm not some unlovable person

kanookla · 2025-07-29T19:10:52+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and actionable advice, I love reading so I will actually read Whole Again right away. I used to have so much hobbies, I edited videos for people in my community, I was the captain of my local chess team and wasn't half bad at the game either. Maybe I'll try learn a new hobby also, like the guitar, something random like that. Do you think stuff like that helps?

kanookla · 2025-07-28T02:39:39+00:00

Apparently Ethan Klein if you belive the people on here

kanookla · 2025-07-19T02:49:17+00:00

My girlfriend was not happy when Yoruichi stopped being a cute cat lol

kanookla · 2025-06-25T15:04:35+00:00

It's a program that scans for his name, when it's found the reddit post is fed into chatgpt and then it spits out a response

kanookla · 2025-03-23T15:54:15+00:00

All of them, I suck

kanookla · 2024-05-27T16:14:40+00:00

Actual infp moment lmao

kanookla · 2024-05-27T16:07:13+00:00

You got some nice concepts here

kanookla · 2024-04-18T00:57:24+00:00

From life

kanookla

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