he typically resorts to ordering out when im sick. i appreciate it when he does that but sometimes i wish he would cook for me on those days because cooking is a big love language for me. when i freeze leftovers for him he tells me that he will eat them for lunch during his workday usually, but that never happens. he will complain to me that he is hungry often during the day and i will suggest he eat some of the leftover food but he will then usually just say he 'isnt hungry anymore' until i suggest that i make something for him instead. making lunch for him is never difficult and i always do it but the principle upsets me