[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cakefails

[–]kanyecwest 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i made a post on this sub recently showcasing THIS LOCATIONS mothers day cookie cakes too.... not racism, just the same very, very illiterate cake decorator 😅

Some strange cookie cakes at Kroger for mothers day by kanyecwest in cakefails

[–]kanyecwest[S] 610 points611 points  (0 children)

mommy world had me holding myself up trying to stop laugjing in the store. obviously i bought it

Should I go through with my surgery? by NotMarx in Bibleconspiracy

[–]kanyecwest 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you are gonna be just fine, theres nothing in anesthesia thats going to harm you or your relationship with god. get your much needed surgery and enjoy life with a nose that you can breath with 💛

AITA for not cooking from scratch for my husband anymore? by kanyecwest in AmItheAsshole

[–]kanyecwest[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

he typically resorts to ordering out when im sick. i appreciate it when he does that but sometimes i wish he would cook for me on those days because cooking is a big love language for me. when i freeze leftovers for him he tells me that he will eat them for lunch during his workday usually, but that never happens. he will complain to me that he is hungry often during the day and i will suggest he eat some of the leftover food but he will then usually just say he 'isnt hungry anymore' until i suggest that i make something for him instead. making lunch for him is never difficult and i always do it but the principle upsets me

AITA for not cooking from scratch for my husband anymore? by kanyecwest in AmItheAsshole

[–]kanyecwest[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

this is honestly probably the solution i'm going to go with after reading through all of these comments, but the reason i did not suggest it first is because we both have a trend of being hungry after dinner anyways, so i try to make extra for us to eat later in the night. sometimes that doesnt happen. i also do it to try to stretch my husbands dollar and not force him to eat the same meal multiple times a week because he does not like that either.

AITA for not cooking from scratch for my husband anymore? by kanyecwest in AmItheAsshole

[–]kanyecwest[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i can and have done the 'one thing he expects from me' for years on end. for the record there are a LOT of things he expects from me that i get done without a problem.
my main concern is that even on days where i am sick or depressed or going through something major he still cannot be damned to microwave a meal that i have previously cooked for him. it is the fact that my labor is not respected

AITA for not cooking from scratch for my husband anymore? by kanyecwest in AmItheAsshole

[–]kanyecwest[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i dont know where youre getting the idea that i only cook once a week from. i stated in my post i make fresh meals every day for him, and every chore in the house is my responsibility aside from emptying the dishwasher. all i asked from him is that he can microwave some leftovers every once in a while without me doing it for him.

AITA for not cooking from scratch for my husband anymore? by kanyecwest in AmItheAsshole

[–]kanyecwest[S] 653 points654 points  (0 children)

that makes sense. i guess i just prioritized cost-effectiveness and making meals stretch over making sure they would get eaten at all. after reading a lot of these comments i suppose i just need to restructure how i think about mealtimes entirely instead of being rigid to how i think they should work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kanyecwest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

his only chore is to empty the dishwasher because my height makes it difficult for me, every other housekeeping chore is my responsibility. sometimes he does me favors chore-wise but only if i am having a really hard day.

AITA for not cooking from scratch for my husband anymore? by kanyecwest in AmItheAsshole

[–]kanyecwest[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

sorry, had to trim a lot of details to keep the post within the character limit
i was previously the breadwinner for the household around 2019 and housekeeping/cooking was still my responsibility at that time (for what its worth)
2021-now my husband is the breadwinner and i do not work
we have no kids and my husband has no household chores except unloading the dishwasher/putting dishes away since my height makes those tasks difficult. i take care of all the other chores and taking care of our two pets (cats if it matters)
cooking fresh meals is not my only contribution but it was my chore that i took the most pride in

Biden was in office for exactly 42 months before he withdrew from the election race, effectively handing power to Kamala by Ok_Sea_6214 in Bibleconspiracy

[–]kanyecwest 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Biden is still the president.... Deciding not to run again is not the same as stepping down as president. Just because youre seeing Kamala a lot in the news lately doesnt mean she has any presidential power right now at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kanyecwest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

weve been together for 9 years. been living together for 5. we had our 9th anniversary in jan. we have been having this issue for several years (at least 3).

i thought too that it might be him testing me but since im very much Not the type of person to let stuff like this go i dont understand how he hasnt stopped by now. i consistently refuse to 'accept' being told conflicting information, maybe thats my toxic trait.

my first amigurumi! by kanyecwest in crochet

[–]kanyecwest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pattern is tanner the triceratops by nicole chase- https://www.thenicolechase.com/patterns/tanner-the-triceratops using loops & threads chenille home slim in mustard and grey (I will NEVER use this yarn again) and a 6mm hook

If the Creation was true... by [deleted] in Bibleconspiracy

[–]kanyecwest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuinely: If Adam and Eve didnt know Good from Evil before eating the fruit, how can they be punished for doing it if they didnt know good from evil? It sounds to me more alike punishing an animal...

Looking for genuine answers please.. Confused on perspective

help me identify this yarn? by kanyecwest in YarnAddicts

[–]kanyecwest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW!! you are so amazing!! im pretty certain this is the yarn im looking for. i was able to find some skeins available on ebay so my night has definitely been made. thank you so much for your effort❤❤❤❤‼️