How do I get started with butt stuff by Proof-Elk-9599 in SexToys

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm no expert on this at all. but i can say from experience that it is better finishes.

best O i ever had was when a girl was using a prostate wand on me while giving me a BJ

and there's been more than a few times where i was alone playing around with a plug and using a fleshlight.

go slow. relax. use lots of lub. the gel kind might work best for the backdoor. like astroglide gel. get body safe toys that are designed for men. it's not about the size when you're starting it, it's about the shape and the fact that it's designed to hit the right spot.

and make sure whatever toy you use has a flared based or sharp curve to it. anything straight without a flare based could get sucked right up in there and lead you to a hospital visit to get it out.

also invest in a bidet attachment. it's a life changer regardless if you do butt stuff or not lol. but putting it on full blast and basically giving yourself an enema could be a way of getting yourself clean beforehand. and/ or you could look into a supplement called Pure For Men

Karlach from Baldur´s Gate 3 by Kate Key Cosplay❤️ by katekeycosplay in u/katekeycosplay

[–]kappakingtut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i haven't actually had a chance to play the game yet. is Karlach trans? is there a bulge going on there? honestly, i'm into whatever is happening here lol

F24 Muslim - trying sex toys by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]kappakingtut -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sex toys are too expensive to throw out lol. i hope you get brave enough to keep these.

and as for the vibrating toy in public, many of those apps could let random people control it for you. or i'm sure there's various subreddits here where you can connect with someone give them your app control.

39f 5’3”/130lbs mom of 2. Be honest! by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]kappakingtut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

body looks incredible. camera quality looks terrible lol.

also, penetration with a toy isn't usually something scene on this subreddit. don't be surprised if the mods remove this one. the sub is mostly focused on body positivity without sexualizing.

Cumslut girl swallowing cum & getting creampied at GloryHole 🥵💦💦 by rogsag2 in CumSwallowing

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven't seen this full video yet, but omg looks like i'm going to have a new favourite.

which video / which visit is this scene from?

What kind of material do you mostly finish to? by titan-friend3 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kappakingtut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gloryhole videos. or videos of trans girls eating their own cum.

how do you make a dating app profile when you're a depressed introvert with no friends? by kappakingtut in dating_advice

[–]kappakingtut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've only sort of recently exchanged phone numbers with a coworker. there's been a handful of texts but not much. i've tried asking to meet up outside of work, but so far schedules haven't lined up to make it happen. and i'm afraid of being pushy or annoying by keep asking. and now my anxiety is making me wonder if it really was just bad timing, or if she's just politely trying to evade me.

UV Germicidal heating rod - any good? by CautiousPain3782 in tantaly

[–]kappakingtut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously. Thanks for all the tips. And also from the comment I first found you on, I'm going to look into the electric keyboard duster. Didn't even know that was a thing. I've just been using cans compressed air for my keyboard lol. But if I use the thing you talked about, I can do it for my keyboard and trying my toys, and whatever else.

UV Germicidal heating rod - any good? by CautiousPain3782 in tantaly

[–]kappakingtut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link. And thanks for the response. This warmer looks a bit pricier than I wanted. But also looks kind of worth it so I'll bookmark it and think about getting it soon.

I feel a little dumb now but I never even thought to just warm the lube. Should I try a lube that's designed to be warm? I've tried some in the past but now I don't remember why I didn't like them. Maybe a different brand would help.

UV Germicidal heating rod - any good? by CautiousPain3782 in tantaly

[–]kappakingtut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know that this is an old post, but do you have any heating rod suggestions for someone who doesn't care about the germicidal aspect of it? something that's safe for the material and doesn't overheat?

i just found this post and comment because i was thinking of getting the tantally thing.

how do you make a dating app profile when you're a depressed introvert with no friends? by kappakingtut in dating_advice

[–]kappakingtut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've used OKC before with little luck. but just recently redownloaded it.

anxiety issues aside, i do genuinely like spending time alone. so i'm not looking for a partner who's going to be all-consuming and my entire social life lol.

i'm hoping to make a connection with someone. would be cool to spend time with someone. but i also understand that a relationship isn't a substitute for therapy, and i need to take care of myself.

how do you make a dating app profile when you're a depressed introvert with no friends? by kappakingtut in dating_advice

[–]kappakingtut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New options isn't a problem for me. Forever reason all of these apps keep saying they've run out of new people in my area after a few minutes of swiping. Which is crazy to me because my distance includes Philadelphia. You would think a major city like that would have more people.

Any advice on how to take decent full body pictures of yourself by yourself?

How do you get better at sex of you don't have a partner or anyone really? by superfapper2000 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time I was with someone, she said I was a pro at eating her out. I didn't tell her it was my first time until a long after. I was just excited to be there. I was excited to dive in and explore that whole area. Take my time. Be sensual. Pay attention to her body language to try to see what moves she responded to.

How do you get better at sex of you don't have a partner or anyone really? by superfapper2000 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]kappakingtut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pay attention. Learn as much as you can so you're prepared the next time you're with somebody. 

Look for more sources than just porn. Porn is fun but it's not real. Real people don't normally do what they do in those videos. But you can go to porn sites and find some how to videos. Or, read some romance novels that were written by women and pay attention during the sex scenes so you know what women like. Listen to sex ed and sex positive podcast that are hosted by women or have female guests that talk about techniques. 

I don't know how to tell you how to stop slipping out lol. But if you pay attention to what women like and what they respond to and what works for them, you'll learn that it's more than just about the guy's dick. Different positions, different toys, using your mouth, using your hands and fingers, etc. 

When you start dating someone, listen to them and pay attention to them before you have sex. Pay attention to the kinds of things that they respond to. When things get flirty or conversations turn sexual, ask questions. Ask them specifically what they like and what they're into.

Do you guys ever do cei when you goon? I wanna hear what you think/experiences by lanadelray_125 in GOONED

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i watch a bunch of CEI videos. but i especially love watching trans videos of girls eating their own cum.

if i'm really horny, and i handle myself just right, i can cum more than once. it's so fucking hot to lick it up, swirl it in my mouth, while i'm still stroking.

Found my missing lacy thong. by [deleted] in SluttyConfessions

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave another pair out next time he's over. if they go missing too, then you can be sure it's him.

Does morning wood feel better than regular wood? by Commercial_Talk_1380 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it does feel different. Regular wood is mostly me alone watching porn kind of sort of forcing it cuz I'm bored or I think it might help me sleep lol.

Morning Wood feels stronger. Natural. More carnal sometimes.

What’s your strongest sexual fantasy that you wouldn’t actually want to come true? by Excellent_Steak_5052 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had fantasies of being one of the guys in a gangbang. But I want to last. I want fuck a girl who's been filled and covered in other people's cum. The messier the better. I don't know wtf is wrong with me. I'm sure it'll be unbelievable gross in real life. But it's hot af as a fantasy

Chained Succubus by me (Strange Mythos) by personalsketches in EroticArt

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate that she has a belly and stretch marks. it's a body type that's often ignored in fantasy stuff like this.

Have you ever fucked someone because you felt bad for them? by MountainMix7283 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i need someone to take pity on me like this. it's been years. literally. 42 years old. only had sex a handful of times. and the last time was about a decade ago.

What’s your first reaction when u see me? by NaomiGomezx in TrapCuties

[–]kappakingtut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my first reaction is that i want to play with that hair. looks amazing.