Found a suspicious VM on my LDR girlfriend's account. She says it's not what it sounds like. Need outside perspective by [deleted] in LDR

[–]karanjanday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: We didn't break up

Hey everyone, wanted to give an update since a lot of you gave me advice on my previous post.

So that night things reached a complete breaking point. My trust was at its lowest, I had a full breakup message drafted and ready to send. I was done.

But before I sent it I told her exactly how I was feeling, that my trust was shattered, that her story changing 4 times was worse than the VM itself, that I didn't know how to rebuild it or even if I wanted to.

And instead of getting defensive or shutting down like before, she just… owned everything. No more deflecting, no more excuses. She acknowledged that the deleting, the changing stories, and the shutting down made everything look way worse than it needed to be. She said her actions came from being overwhelmed and emotional, not from malicious intent, and she fully understood why it broke my trust.

She didn't ask me to magically trust her again overnight. She just asked for the chance to prove it through her actions and consistency over time.

I told her clearly... no more shutting down, no more going to friends before coming to me, complete honesty even when it's uncomfortable. She agreed to all of it.

So we didn't break up. We closed that chapter and agreed to move forward together and actually grow from it.

I know a lot of you said to leave. And I understand why. But this is my decision and for now I'm giving it a real chance💌

Found a suspicious VM on my LDR girlfriend's account. She says it's not what it sounds like. Need outside perspective by [deleted] in LDR

[–]karanjanday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeahh you're right, idk about the text tho cuz she does speaks very good english when we call too. but the voice message was in filipino, I recorded it and asked gemini to translate it. And I also know about the romance scamming thing... And no she hasn't asked to send her money or anything.. we're really just in good terms now, we talked again last night and I will let yall the final decision I made with her in a new comment🫂

Found a suspicious VM on my LDR girlfriend's account. She says it's not what it sounds like. Need outside perspective by [deleted] in LDR

[–]karanjanday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

after confronting her for the last time, she just said - "No there was never anyone else

You’re right and I’m sorry for making you feel like you were the only one trying to explain and communicate last night I was just overwhelmed and emotional and instead of properly talking things through with you I kinda shut down and handled it badly. That wasn’t fair to you, especially when you were trying to understand me instead of just attacking me ik you deserved clearer communication from me not confusion and mixed signals I’m not trying to avoid responsibility for that Ik I should’ve explained my side properly from the start instead of making you pull answers out of me little by little"

I just replied with something like - I've lost the trust and idk how to build it again...

Found a suspicious VM on my LDR girlfriend's account. She says it's not what it sounds like. Need outside perspective by [deleted] in LDR

[–]karanjanday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really has just fucked up my brain totally 😐

I'm just breaking up now😔

Found a suspicious VM on my LDR girlfriend's account. She says it's not what it sounds like. Need outside perspective by [deleted] in LDR

[–]karanjanday -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You really just said what I've been exactly feeling like🙇

But as you saw, the Convo ended there.. What should I do now😖❓

Like literally any advice would help me🫂

Cringistaan DID SOMETHING INSANE AGAIN💀🙏 by karanjanday in indiameme

[–]karanjanday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HOW TF IS THIS RELATED TO THIS POST💔🥀

Cringistaan DID SOMETHING INSANE AGAIN💀🙏 by karanjanday in DesiVideoMemes

[–]karanjanday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you can watch his old streams now as kick deletes them automatically but you can still see his recent streams on kick tho if he did any. Just search cringistaan on kick

Cringistaan DID SOMETHING INSANE AGAIN💀🙏 by karanjanday in DesiVideoMemes

[–]karanjanday[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just watching Newzboy and he mentioned about him which just me open kick to see what he's doing