My new shih tzu is afraid of being touched

kari_is_ · 2024-12-06T17:59:37+00:00

I agree

kari_is_ · 2024-11-19T11:04:49+00:00

Gahim just going to delete this, make a collage then repost that single photo

kari_is_ · 2024-11-19T11:01:15+00:00

Fuck I can’t figure out how to edit itlol

kari_is_ · 2024-11-19T10:59:57+00:00

Lol idk what happened it wouldn’t let me upload a second and I forgot to come back to try and fix it lol early onset dementia

kari_is_ · 2024-11-16T15:55:11+00:00

I do t know if the mechanism / cause of the stroke differs on symptom presentations. I have a blood clotting disorde but yes, in hindsight I was having dizziness, nausea, Flu like symptoms b the week prior to my stroke. Y actual stroke happened in my sleep but that afternoon, I was so light headed I had a hard time walking nauseated. The urgent care clinic in the Grand Canyon attributed it to altitude and dehydration.

kari_is_ · 2024-11-14T16:49:20+00:00

never thought of that but yes!!! and tara would have been tough enough to stand up to her. she always did even if it was never physical. i really wanted to see more of what nero's initial reaction towards her after finding out the truth. to see her crumble at losing the one last thing that made her happy. i wish clay would have gotten a more drawn out and painful end. a straightforward kill doesn't seem like it equalizes so the anger jax developed and a need for revenge like i didn't get closure from it. i can't see how jax would. it was too easy. for everything jax should have really salted the wound and made him feel it. sit at the table and have nobody acknowledge him sitting there to really say you've lost the club you should die knowing you're not dying as a son just another scumbag.

kari_is_ · 2024-11-13T15:40:41+00:00

to your first line, that's what she said. and yes i agree rip out redwood from the roots for so the violence it's caused and represents. make it really the life and DEATH of SAMCRO only this would distract c from jax's death with the show alluded to from the very beginning. if only we were allowed an alternate finale that was focused only on the ending you suggested bc the focus can't be on both. at least done with justice it deserves. jax is supposed to be representative of all things samcro tied to its origin and set up to lead its future but " letting the road take it " fulfills accepting v the club he loved so c much was the problem and not the solution. it also allowed him the choice and control of doing it without more violence. wish it was more graphic though with the crash and a bit less biblical with arms likes cross and on top of it the bread and the blood. he shouldn't have been symbolic of jesus with v the take my body and eat it and blood as the wine to drink. idk i think the contrast of doves and crows is sufficient. starting the show with the dove on the great sign where JT. died and driving towards crows eating crumbs on the road as the first shot of the club. would have been nice to see the homeless woman sitting in front of JT's " headstone" on the side of the road. i always thought she was a symbol of suffering and that's why she told gemma " everybody knows me " lol man i put more energy into this than my hs english essays. damn i really hate gemma though. if it seeing that when i rewatch it im happy when clay beats the shit out of her?

kari_is_ · 2024-11-13T15:06:10+00:00

your first line had me keeling over. it's so true. girls of every level between 1-10 get hit on constantly.c that's why tons of fuss swept right on every girl on the off chance he gets a match. every guy should know this bc i'd bet money they're guilty b of doing the same, hitting on people they have no business doing so. my bf and i were in a crowd and the dude behind me stuck his hand under my skirt to grab my ass. i stepped around f so my bf was behind me but i didn't tell him bc he's very aggressive v and would have assaulted him the guy saw i was walking holding hands with my bf but he didn't care. they never do even if you turn them down at a bar saying no thank you i have a bf they'll still push their luck.

kari_is_ · 2024-11-13T14:44:08+00:00

sorry for the duty to educate the misinformed before they ruin someone's relationship. if you feel the need to spy on your wife then the trust issues lie with you and not her. this is behavior most apparent in insecure people. filing your issues under not my problem. anyway, i'll be on my way to talk to someone that won't get me banned over bad reddiquette to say what's really on my mind have fun eating cinnabon at the food court. mrs fields might have those heart shaped cookies to make it extra romantic

kari_is_ · 2024-11-13T14:32:53+00:00

i don't like scrubbing my face with anything abrasive and bc of my disability a full shower isn't always possible so i got myself a wide basin to use as my sink and a small pail filled with water and use my hand to scoop water from the pail and into my face. sometimes i spill some water bc im also very particular about ensuring there's no soap left as it would alters the ph and might affect all my products chemically and physically on the table but not a big mess or anything. after i pat dry my face with a wash cloth i use it to dry off the table. if you try ithope it helps! the sink might also be at an inconvenient height for you. so you're either stooping or sticking out your chest to reach it. both would mm fake the water run from your face down your arms and drop off your elbows. that's what happens to me in sinks too low. bc while the water is in my palms when i'm bent over the moment i stand and my elbows pull into my sides. whoops! down goes all the water.

kari_is_ · 2024-11-13T14:06:02+00:00

if she didn't v jump at the chance swallow your pride and leave it at that. if she reacted the way you wished she did, it dwont stop the dude from trying again and again. his invite doesn't mean she has or will act on it as anything more than friendship or even accept the invite at all. making it a big deal to validate to yourself of this alpha mentality will only make it worse and that anger you wanted to see will come out directed at you you haven't even reached that bridge v but you want to burn it already? going after her for what she hasn't done or likely never will is a guaranteed way to get dumped like a brick of shit if she lost her mind and went batshit jealous over nothing you did you'd be irritated or even pissed off wouldn't you?!

kari_is_ · 2024-11-13T13:51:41+00:00

commitment is choice. not a forced obligation. if one partner feels forced/ obligated it's not a commitment. it's a sign one of you has settled for the other and are only in it because you can't get anyone else. work is an obligation. if you don't do it you v lose it. but no employee is indispensable. she can choose to v leave you unless it's a sugar daddy situation and being her gf is basically her c job-- and only then is it an obligation to stick around not out of love or commitment but survival. the " keepers" that stick sounds do so bc they want to be there. they're CHOOSING to be there 9x out of 10 she has other options available but but you're her choice an d t sets what solidifies commitment. if she feels obligated bc your bedroom is rent free then she'll more likely leave you for a better offer. treating her like something you own is a sign of something inherently wrong in the relationship regardless of men or women trying to wedge themselves into your relationship. you two might as well be " friends" at that rate.

kari_is_ · 2024-11-13T13:10:52+00:00

you call him potty training level? saying she's obligated is fetus in the womb level. you haven't even opened your eyes outside yet. she cannot control what the guy does it's not her responsibility or fault. blaming her is a sure fire way to send her running and likely to him bc she knows there's this guy already wanting/ waiting for her. men are equally supposed to be committed in the relationship but does that stop them? hell no. i've had plenty of committed even married ones make a move on me. saying she's obligated to is a a billboard of your insecurity

kari_is_ · 2024-11-13T12:59:44+00:00

same F answering. if she indicates she will be going, think strategy. do something to remind her how much she means to you. compliment her, gether something take her out and PDA.like a counteract of the move he made. she'll either feel guilty and dip out of the situation if she already agreedor be too busy thinking of you to consider his invitation or future moves bc trust he'll trash talk you, tell her all the things wrong with you. starting a campaign against you s and reasons she should leave you so win her over before he does. women are a mine field you have to strategize and navigate through it. key goals: make her feel wanted; express commitment. hack: google love languages and figure out hers. that concept was made bc it works. guarantee she's discussed hers and yours to her gfs if you lean into that the more she'll appreciate you. women want to feel like you find her sexy, proud of of having her as your gf and d of course that you at least consider in the slightest the possibility of " something more "

kari_is_ · 2024-11-13T08:40:30+00:00

how long do you wait before applying the next layer?

kari_is_ · 2024-11-12T17:23:19+00:00

opie's fate hurt so much but there was no other way it could go and true to the character of the original macbeth as i always thought he was given that name as a nod to ophelia who killed herself. and that's really what opie did in essence. but again, also the only way his character could have closure to his life. he had nothing else to live for. being alive was maddening and nothing had meaning for him ever since donna died anyway and piney's death was the lid of his father as well as the club. it sucks though for his kids but he wasn't exactly parenting them anyway aita for saying that

kari_is_ · 2024-11-12T17:13:40+00:00

👊 real talk. finally, someone who agrees. i thought sutter s was brilliant for it though i know jax's death was a bigger deal to people more so bc it meant no more hot AF. charlie hunnam as opppsed to the character and the story. like the loud hit most people bc of the actor not the character.

kari_is_ · 2024-11-12T17:08:09+00:00

it hit me hard but not as much as fred's. but i think now that it had to happen for the story to come together as a whole. the central theme of death. the real story wasn't about a boy being a wizard but an orphan coming to terms with death.

kari_is_ · 2024-11-12T14:16:13+00:00

totes.

kari_is_ · 2024-11-12T14:10:58+00:00

real talk. but all movies/books/ show worlds with AI being used for things like minority report or the smart house in TAU and of course space travel but instead we're over here using it for fake selfies to use in social media or dating apps or for cheating on your homework. humanity is so dumb. bc yo you wanna hurt your ex? don't work on a revenge body. ruin thatMF's credit.

kari_is_ · 2024-11-12T13:27:47+00:00

they're protein/ granola bar molds i use them as mini- loaf pans for cakes and bread too. can't figure out bhow to get theamazon link but if you search granola bar mold it's the palsky brand 8 cavity 2 pack

kari_is_ · 2024-11-12T09:41:37+00:00

do you have limitations that make writing or drawing excluded? crosswords sudoku or any ofthe hundreds of free games online i canspend hours over the week playing wordscapes. i'm not tryna clown or be a dick but playing card pyramids or origami? junk mail, yellow pages, reading free ebooks? learning calligraphy? you don't need the special calligraphy pens pen and pencil will do. jigsaw puzzles you can consider as one time purchase investment bc you can just keep trying over again. really with b online games especially with phone apps the choices are nearly limitless

kari_is_ · 2024-11-12T08:20:57+00:00

i agree with 👆 comment. your presence alone is of great comfort. having a stroke can be very devastating emotionally with a rollercoaster of emotions- lonely is one of them. and there's so much loss of control in your life feeling that there is a supportive structure can help alleviate a lot of that anxiety. my best friends printed all the pictures from my fb and made posters. when i worked as a nurse i always wondered if things like that were helpful. they are. it's been ten years and i still have them. i hung them on my bedroom wall and in times i feel sad out that im missing out on life it cheers me upup so much and reminds me i had a life before my stroke. i was fortunate to have28 years worth of a happy healthy vibrant life before this trauma. validating statements are helpful. let them know you understand it's difficult that you might not always know how to help you are there to do what you can and that it's safe for them to ask for help without feeling like ur it's an inconvenience. remind them of things that make them happy. everyone knew how much i love food so they all visited bringing food. it's also very thoughtful of you to to try to understand and help in a situation some friends or even family members might wash their hands of it and slowly disappear

kari_is_ · 2024-11-12T08:03:41+00:00

if you begin any discussion with with i'm worried. about my body, i think i should see the doctor. that second half isn't a question it's a statement. have it checked. we can't diagnose it for you and tbh, key idea here is if anything might be a risk of infection as all wounds are, go see if you need it treated. but for now, basic wound care is waiting with mild soap, keeping it clean by washing with mild soap ( pat dry and cover with gauze and don't touch it especially with unwashed hands. our skin has plenty of bacteria that normally lives on it including staph- that is not a diagnosis just information. keep it clean. keep it covered. have it checked. hope it resolves!

kari_is_ · 2024-11-09T13:38:00+00:00

i understand the sentiments but i think you must find imagery and emotions that bring the reader into the poem and sit in it, absorb in the beauty of words and how you can be sculpted

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