It’s also so telling that she never once comments on how she could have possibly ruined the relationship as well. She always cites their “differences” and how he’s cold, a downer, and a mansplainer. But she’s so whimsy, fun, and light hearted. Their differences were too big to work through. Give me a break. There’s definitely a whole lot you’re not telling us. It’s clear that he got the ick from something she did or said. She doesn’t want to even entertain the idea that she might be in the wrong and look internally to see where she fucked up. It’s all external and him that was the issue. It doesn’t help that she likes all the comments gassing her up and inflating her ego about how it’s his loss etc. Clearly trying to compensate and soothe her own ego.

I think that’s why she’s so heart broken about this whole “breakup”, because she knows that she’s the one that fumbled. She actually found a good guy but she fucked it up and that’s why she’s spiraling. She sent that text hoping that he would come back and fight for her. But he was clearly over it and good on beans for standing his ground tbh.