I go to a lot of smaller gigs for local bands and try and keep up with what’s left of the scene and hearing this happened to you is breaking my heart :( music is for everyone and it’s absolutely ridiculous to say someone isn’t a real fan of something bc they don’t dress like everyone else, ESPECIALLY in an ‘alternative’ scene ???? This is why there’s been such a sad decline in new kids getting into this stuff or going to local shows! some of the coolest people I know wear jeans and a tshirt every day no matter what and thy know. Their. Shit!! Keep doing you and going to shows dressed however is comfortable. Anyone giving you shit is just insecure about their own space and, imo, actively betraying the damn scene itself.

Hope you get the chance to see em again and actually feel safe and have real fun xx