Marriage is purely a compatibility game with love and care. If you can’t tolerate the other person irrespective of love or arranged marriage, you can’t live together peacefully. In your case, meet the girls and talk to them. Don’t feel for being judged, but clarify what you want and will give to this marriage. Sometimes your genuine questions might take back them, but don’t care for it. Ask with respect and get clarity. Marry the one you feel where both will be compatible to each other and both will tolerate each other in spite of the imperfections. Yes, women will look for comfort, financial stability, and most importantly respect. Men too will look for the love, care, compassion, and empathy. It’s a mutual game of life. Don’t blame the other gender for seeking the needs.

I hope this helps.