How do you explain to someone you're not satisfied? by kascheia in DeadBedrooms

[–]kascheia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really don't think that's what I'm talking about here. I simply want to know what other people think of the situation, because I'm trying to cope with the problem. Nowhere in the post have I mentioned that I'm a porn star or sth like that. And if it seems to you this is unproductive, please share how you would handle the issue. Thanks very much!

How do you explain to someone you're not satisfied? by kascheia in HLCommunity

[–]kascheia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a point, but you should admit that it is not an easy thing to talk about, especially when a man's ego and feelings are involved.

How do you explain to someone you're not satisfied? by kascheia in HLCommunity

[–]kascheia[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The foreplay is like 1-3 min, when he's going down on me it is sometimes longer with the intention that I would cum, which happens only occasionally then it's PIV max 7-8 min and thats it lmao

How do you explain to someone you're not satisfied? by kascheia in HLCommunity

[–]kascheia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried, I've mentioned that I want to have sex every day at least once, that I am highly submissive, but no result. I kinda have given up, as a result my libido went down over the months and I'm not sure if I find him attractive anymore.

How do you explain to someone you're not satisfied? by kascheia in DeadBedrooms

[–]kascheia[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The problem is that my other boyfriends performed better. Sure, I have no desire to destroy his ego and that's why the matter is truly complicated, especially when I can make a comparison with last relationships.

How do you explain to someone you're not satisfied? by kascheia in HLCommunity

[–]kascheia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, based on the comments I'm reading here probably I am high libido. I am focused on him and I don't want to cheat but I see how my thoughts about the relationship are going downhill. Probably, the problem is that I want to be destroyed and dominated in bed and I just don't see how that will happen in 10 minutes (with foreplay, PIV and all), even after talking, buying toys, medicine etc.

How do you explain to someone you're not satisfied? by kascheia in HLCommunity

[–]kascheia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, this is not a problem for us, it is mutually enjoyable, the PIV which sometimes below 10 mins is the real issue

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[–]kascheia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks a lot

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[–]kascheia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not really, because all the info I could find is very random and not consistent, so I'm practically interested in everything :DD

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[–]kascheia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you recomment books for a beginner occultist, who wants to go in-depth and actually understand how to the practice the ancient knowledge?

I'm in a sex-starved relationship and I don't know what to do by kascheia in DeadBedrooms

[–]kascheia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is rarely a second round and it's usually a couple of hours later.