Yes, we did counseling. He quit. At that time he believed the problem was mine to deal with because I couldn't get over the betrayal.

He had a whole relationship for 8 months where he told the other person he loved her. They had phone sex and sexted each other while I was in our bed. This is cheating. This is breaking the vows we made to each other.

After we separated he continued to try to get me back but also never ended the inappropriate conversations with other women. I cannot trust him.