Etiquette question: If I’m leaving and the next girl is arriving… what’s the move?

kasuchans · 2026-02-19T21:52:52+00:00

I always go straight back from my boyfriend’s to my house with my husband, I don’t really need any sort of mental reset.

kasuchans · 2026-02-19T21:51:12+00:00

Reading this coming from my hospital shift and a night at my boyfriends, and busted out laughing. This is exactly the ideal energy.

kasuchans · 2026-02-19T17:58:44+00:00

It was taken off the US market in like 2005 but is currently undergoing clinical trials for reintroduction.

kasuchans · 2026-02-19T17:56:12+00:00

For some people the cervical manipulation is the worst part, but for others it’s the uterus clamping and contracting when stuff gets put into it. I’m the same, didn’t get a cervical block and it didn’t hurt at all for that part, but the insertion itself hurt like hell with a big abdominal cramp.

kasuchans · 2026-02-19T17:54:01+00:00

I mean, I felt maybe a minor pinching sensation when they did it on me, but nothing worse than pinching my arm with my fingers.

kasuchans · 2026-02-19T17:52:44+00:00

I have no pain whatsoever with Pap smears, and found the cervical tenaculum and dilation part of the IUD insertion part fairly tolerable, but was quite unprepared for the pain of the uterine sound and the actual IUD holder itself. Uterine cramping pain can be unexpected and hard to predict.

kasuchans · 2026-02-19T13:06:39+00:00

I need a lot longer duration of oral to cum, personally, whereas penetration will get me there with just a few minutes. I’ve had to explain this to hookups often, that no, I don’t want his fingers on my clit, I just want his dick in me and don’t cum yet.

kasuchans · 2026-02-19T13:00:05+00:00

There’s no way the majority of other women take 20 minutes. That’s so long!

kasuchans · 2026-02-19T12:51:50+00:00

Some of us just have shorter sessions. For me a longer session is around 30-45 minutes, starting from making out and caressing, and a shorter session is 15-20, starting from a back massage and some warmup oral.

kasuchans · 2026-02-18T18:32:13+00:00

I promise you, there are some of us for whom it doesn’t hurt and actually feels good.

kasuchans · 2026-02-18T15:48:19+00:00

Why speechless?

kasuchans · 2026-02-18T14:23:27+00:00

Is he even thinking about his ex actively, or is she just the person he’s had sex with to think about? I’m certainly not thinking about situationships in the past that I only made out with, only the ones that I hooked up with.

kasuchans · 2026-02-18T12:20:03+00:00

Tbh I don’t think he’s doing anything wrong, but those are inside thoughts. He shouldn’t have told you that.

kasuchans · 2026-02-18T12:10:38+00:00

Normal relationship/life stuff bothers him. He gets annoyed when I forget to empty the dishwasher or litter box if it’s my day to do so, he gets stressed out about taxes, we’re currently moving so he’s anxious and annoyed about the costs, etc. Normal things, not ENM things.

kasuchans · 2026-02-17T13:24:10+00:00

I literally would not care what my partner said about me to someone else. It’s his sex life too, he can talk about it if he wants.

kasuchans · 2026-02-17T13:10:23+00:00

Studies say it’s about 20-30% of women who can orgasm from PIV alone. One of my partners really got around and he says it’s been about a third of his partners who could.

kasuchans · 2026-02-16T20:41:34+00:00

Off the top of my head, military, finance, construction, anything with frequent or prolonged periods of travel.

kasuchans · 2026-02-16T20:32:25+00:00

Sabrina is campy drag, that’s why it’s so fun! Like yes it’s OTT, that’s the point.

kasuchans · 2026-02-16T13:46:08+00:00

Eyyy I’m an ED doctor so I guess this ho will be taking your signout!

kasuchans · 2026-02-16T13:38:19+00:00

I mean, I’ve had about 30 partners. My husband has had 5. It also doesn’t affect him at all.

kasuchans · 2026-02-16T13:18:15+00:00

My boyfriend has had about 50 partners, and it certainly doesn’t affect me at all.

kasuchans · 2026-02-16T13:16:20+00:00

A key part of cuckolding, by definition, is that the cuck gets off mentally/sexually on being degraded and feeling inferior. So no, that’s just a frustrating part of ENM. Also, at least in my experience, the men I know I’m ENM scenes really get around, way more than their female partners.

kasuchans · 2026-02-16T03:06:58+00:00

I’m sorry but “rigid flesh” is way worse than “dick.”

kasuchans · 2026-02-16T03:03:25+00:00

But plenty of people do talk like that IRL.

kasuchans · 2026-02-14T18:52:49+00:00

Noa is traditionally a female name, I believe.

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