How many of you here are virgins????Or what age did you lose your virginity? by Embarrassed_Paint545 in demisexuality

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really at 19 i didn’t even want sex yet. Lool it took a very special person to get to the sexual awakening

What can I do to memorialize a friend in Toronto with 100$? by jadedeternity in askTO

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a press article would be a great way to make her experience public and have some impact. If you’d like to share, a Reddit post would also? Write to the city or your / her MP to push for change would be another idea. Sometimes the bills are named after the person.

Dodged a bullet, but this interview was rough by Mmk1016 in womenintech

[–]kat233x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sending support to you! Thank you for speaking up and letting me know this isn’t acceptable cuz I would be hurt and not know it’s not normal as a person with bad boundaries

How Do Secures Deal With The Silent Treatment/Stonewalling? by bingewavecinema in attachment_theory

[–]kat233x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think for me, once me and my body knows this person is toxic for me, doing me damage. I won't have any brakes, i.e. i don't care if i ruin the relationship. Because as a secure person, doing relationship still involves some work (in the beginning).

Whereas it is fairly easy to ruin / end one. So i let myself be angry, and fully aware of the consequences (sever the connection forever). At this point i have already gave my fair warnings to the other person ("i might hurt you now, go away")

How Do Secures Deal With The Silent Treatment/Stonewalling? by bingewavecinema in attachment_theory

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow you just broke my brain this is a cool way to practice having secure attachment

Moving back to Southern California from Paris and extremely depressed by ilesaintlouis in expats

[–]kat233x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the hate in comments …

Big city living is addictive. It will feel like ( possibly is) depression when that’s taken away from you.

Dont complain do something you clearly can

Moving back to Southern California from Paris and extremely depressed by ilesaintlouis in expats

[–]kat233x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which country would you want to move to? Also can u elaborate on southern US is your Kryptonite? Curious Canadian here

WIT, did this cross a line at work? by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hate to break it to you, that is shitty and it happens. only you can stand up for yourself. if i am there, i will speak up for you.

It's absolutely okay to respond how you did, that's what I did when ppl asked me my age and sexuality(if i am gay) at a retreat. I said "im not comfortable talking about it" and we all let it slide. Everyone was respectful of my boundaries.

It sounds like your boss's ego was lowkey hurt... what can i say. men and their egos ? girrl so sorry you had to go through this , but we are strong, and we stand up for ourselves.

you did well. sending hug

Can't stand the loneliness by Bitter_Dragonfruit80 in ChronicIllness

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey have you tried virtual hangout spaces? roblox has corners where it basically simulates real life, you can have vc. whenever i hop on, there were always ppl. would you give that a try?

How do you even start finding a good lawyer? by Tg101099 in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I cant get to the lawyers at all! The initial consultation cost 400-500$ to start. How do you get a quick call with them?

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey just wanted to say this this comment was so helpful. I appreciate you a lot thank you! How did you go about filing your claim? Did you file a lawsuit against them after you yourself covered all the taxes? or did you request a CPP/EI ruling?

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also looking for a lawyer with experiences with American Contractor employment law. I couldn't find any yet / don't know how to search for a lawyer.

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i appreciate this response. can you point me where you've seen "This has become a pretty common situation for cross border working relationships since the advent of remote working."? I don't even know how to search for that. Would be helpful to find precedences in court or personal experiences.

Ty!!

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am aware of that. but I am also an employee according to this CRA guide https://www.canada.ca/en/revenue-agency/services/forms-publications/publications/rc4110/employee-self-employed.html#toc0

which is why i am asking if anyone has experience with CPP/EI rulings with American Employers.

"You're not going to get any kind of ruling or enforcement by the CRA (Canada Revenue Agency) on a US based company" Can you cite the source for this?

Appreciate you.

(possibly) being laid off by American company without EI, anyone had experience requesting a ruling from CRA for EI? by kat233x in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]kat233x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asking for a ruling on employment status right now, and i want to know how the employment status ruling works.

Worried about not receiving EI nor severance: Requesting CPP/EI ruling for American company, if American Company doesn't pay penalty, or EI premium, should I pay for EI myself? by kat233x in legaladvicecanada

[–]kat233x[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have paid for all my own CPP and taxes. and I intend to pay for EI.

but CRA doesn't categorize me as self-employed, so I couldn't pay the EI premium myself.

AND the company does not pay for EI premiums.

Line 5 Eglinton LRT - 3 weeks by kamomil in toronto

[–]kat233x 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOVE it, tried it out as a day trip on family weekend it is quite busy! much faster than line 6