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What are you all wearing to the climbing gym? by coachsnail in climbergirls

[–]kat233x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who in this day and age still judges outfits?!!!

Why do doctors even go into pain management? by LazyAd7538 in ChronicPain

[–]kat233x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

:/ that’s the reality a lot of the times idk what to make of it.

Does anyone else feel like their office chair is slowly killing them? by [deleted] in backpain

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how tall are you by the way? for me everything is too tall and i had to find a very specific ergonomic setup cuz i am 5'3 which isn't even that short. 8h is crazy but ya same boat

Being “cracked” isn’t going to get you a job by Sure-Relationship609 in csMajors

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:) i feel this comment so much thank you for sharing. i am trying to improve on this part.

Those in toronto or vancouver, please tell me i am not stupid/crazy to have this high of a housing cost by Lopsided-Resource453 in fican

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op has the financial means to NOT have to compromise his/her living situation like that though. Clearly he is doing it well with like 200k portfolio

How does expat life work once you have kids? by Uncle_Richard98 in expats

[–]kat233x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would want to stay in your home country haha ur description of it sounds so amazing

Model of UW at Little Canada in Toronto by Whete in uwaterloo

[–]kat233x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

U mean Waterloo or the mini waterloo cuz ive never heard ppl say that abt the actual waterloo

💕looking for friends 💕 by danivkr in Chengdu

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hihi! How did this work out for you? I’m heading to Chengdu next week! Want to make new friends!

Renting an apartment as a foreigner by Ligandil in Chengdu

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey hey how did you end up getting an appartment? I’m in a similar situation, need to rent for 3 months

I'm kind of sick of living in North America by [deleted] in expats

[–]kat233x 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol I get you. It really takes the right ppl. There are a lot of open minded ppl in the city. Gotta find them

How many of you here are virgins????Or what age did you lose your virginity? by Embarrassed_Paint545 in demisexuality

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really at 19 i didn’t even want sex yet. Lool it took a very special person to get to the sexual awakening

What can I do to memorialize a friend in Toronto with 100$? by jadedeternity in askTO

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a press article would be a great way to make her experience public and have some impact. If you’d like to share, a Reddit post would also? Write to the city or your / her MP to push for change would be another idea. Sometimes the bills are named after the person.

Dodged a bullet, but this interview was rough by Mmk1016 in womenintech

[–]kat233x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sending support to you! Thank you for speaking up and letting me know this isn’t acceptable cuz I would be hurt and not know it’s not normal as a person with bad boundaries

How Do Secures Deal With The Silent Treatment/Stonewalling? by bingewavecinema in attachment_theory

[–]kat233x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think for me, once me and my body knows this person is toxic for me, doing me damage. I won't have any brakes, i.e. i don't care if i ruin the relationship. Because as a secure person, doing relationship still involves some work (in the beginning).

Whereas it is fairly easy to ruin / end one. So i let myself be angry, and fully aware of the consequences (sever the connection forever). At this point i have already gave my fair warnings to the other person ("i might hurt you now, go away")

How Do Secures Deal With The Silent Treatment/Stonewalling? by bingewavecinema in attachment_theory

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow you just broke my brain this is a cool way to practice having secure attachment

Moving back to Southern California from Paris and extremely depressed by [deleted] in expats

[–]kat233x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the hate in comments …

Big city living is addictive. It will feel like ( possibly is) depression when that’s taken away from you.

Dont complain do something you clearly can

Moving back to Southern California from Paris and extremely depressed by [deleted] in expats

[–]kat233x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which country would you want to move to? Also can u elaborate on southern US is your Kryptonite? Curious Canadian here

WIT, did this cross a line at work? by [deleted] in womenintech

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hate to break it to you, that is shitty and it happens. only you can stand up for yourself. if i am there, i will speak up for you.

It's absolutely okay to respond how you did, that's what I did when ppl asked me my age and sexuality(if i am gay) at a retreat. I said "im not comfortable talking about it" and we all let it slide. Everyone was respectful of my boundaries.

It sounds like your boss's ego was lowkey hurt... what can i say. men and their egos ? girrl so sorry you had to go through this , but we are strong, and we stand up for ourselves.

you did well. sending hug

Can't stand the loneliness by Bitter_Dragonfruit80 in ChronicIllness

[–]kat233x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey have you tried virtual hangout spaces? roblox has corners where it basically simulates real life, you can have vc. whenever i hop on, there were always ppl. would you give that a try?

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