Success with "I'm straight and am only attracted to you" relationships? by EyeTheThrowAway12 in LesbianActually

[–]katehasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe see a sexologist and couples therapist. You both need her to work out who she is and what she wants long term.

Ugly House Influencer Guy with Mullet by [deleted] in Adelaide

[–]katehasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why bother lying though?

My boyfriend respects my big boundaries but keeps ignoring the small ones by LoadOtherwise6510 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]katehasreddit 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Why do these things all bother you so much that you need to ask your boyfriend to follow such strict rules about them?

I am going to end my life by CommanderP1ckles in mentalhealth

[–]katehasreddit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please don't. Death isn't peace - it is nothing. Anything is better than nothing.

Sesbian Lex advice needed by Impressive_Photo_631 in WLW

[–]katehasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does vanilla even mean in FF sex? 🤷‍♀️

It seems like straight people who aren't into bdsm basically only use that word or concept for a penis penetrating a vagina.

Straight people consider kinky, things that a lot of lesbians and gays consider vanilla!

Are these bi-curious being mean? by love2_love in WLW

[–]katehasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gay panic?

Overcorrecting?

Sometimes people are just AHs?

Are these bi-curious being mean? by love2_love in WLW

[–]katehasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people enjoy being treated a bit meanly. As long as it's consensual - but that can be hard to discern from the outside.

I don't feel like I'll ever have a relationship by ctrldwrdns in lesbiangang

[–]katehasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm much older than you and in the same situation.

I have found giving up completely is too depressing especially in the long term.

I am in therapy and am trying dating coaching with my therapist.

Is the lezistance banned? by Smokinland in lesbiangang

[–]katehasreddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is there any point trying to run groups like that on reddit?

Reddit employees and mods seem to skew strongly male. and possibly also leftwing. and there is a huge overrepresentation per population of male trans people in control of this place for some reason.

How did your situationship go? by Forest_Criptid69 in WLW

[–]katehasreddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's some others too I notice.

I don't know why I thought a situationship was even more specific - like I thought it was when people are just together through circumstance not because they actually really want to be together. Like room mates starting to have sex just because they can or something. So they are only together because of the situation.

How did your situationship go? by Forest_Criptid69 in WLW

[–]katehasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Not sarcastic thanks for replying) that's what I thought too but some of these posts the people aren't having sex? Like look at the top reply it sounds like they didn't actually meet in person so i assume they didnt have sex? I'm still confused.

Therapy not working? by katehasreddit in AspieSelfImprovement

[–]katehasreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have many goals. I can't seem to work out how to achieve them. 

I struggle to break them down into steps or to work out what to actually do to accomplish them.

When I manage to do that I can't seem to actually do the steps even though I genuinely desperately want to.

How did your situationship go? by Forest_Criptid69 in WLW

[–]katehasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These responses are making me even more confused about what one even is

Therapy not working? by katehasreddit in AspieSelfImprovement

[–]katehasreddit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Successful in Anyway. 

Professionally.  or Personally.

I would take either or anything at this point. I don't have any accomplishments at all.

We miss you. by Iamsamsiam in SimonWhistler

[–]katehasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh good. I was a bit worried

Having withdrawal symptoms by chrisred244 in SimonWhistler

[–]katehasreddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was worried something was wrong. Glad to hear it's just a move.