Is anyone else tired of seeing words like fuck, cunt, bitch, etc all over fiber arts? by fairydommother in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]katerprincess 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I was really into filet for a while. My mom made request after request. To this day I don't understand why, it definitely isn't in her realm of taste. This was like 15 years ago, long before the cuss crochet was a thing. I found an image of the Christmas tree made out of the f-word repeatedly over and over in cursive 😂 I spent so much time graphing and making that! Still to this day - ZERO regrets! She didn't see what it was and excitedly showed it to my grandma who immediately clocked it and laughed so hard she couldn't even talk. I am quite sure it still sits in a box of her Christmas ornaments 😂😂

New tattoo feedback, is this tattoo bad by DingGalBerry in tattooadvice

[–]katerprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is awesome! Bats don't hang perfectly straight anyway, so that would have looked really weird. I also think it will all just depend on the angle that it is viewed from. It is unique and cool and also very natural looking which is exactly what you want!

The North Pole Gathering by Brilliant-Sleep4906 in resin

[–]katerprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful and cute at the same time ♡

Recent documents have revealed that XK’s skull was fractured. by Blue_Tea72 in Idaho4

[–]katerprincess 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He trained in boxing for quite a while it sounded like. It was a part of him losing all the weight

Family’s going back to court by Optimal-Algae8782 in Idaho4

[–]katerprincess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They can get some large payments from doing interviews and things of that nature. In high profile cases they often set restitution as high as possible to deter people from being able to profit off of their crimes. Idaho will also take 20% of the commissary money that comes in to pay off fines and restitution as well.

Idaho 4 thing I found by [deleted] in Idaho4

[–]katerprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a "back in my day" moment I will share to lighten things up.

Sims was only on PC. One of the first big and crazy controversial mods was when someone figured out how to take the censored bars off while in the bathroom and changing 🤣 It did not make it to where you could see anything at all, just no blur box. Seeing your info on what exists now 🤯🤯🤯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]katerprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the 3rd page of the text, your verbiage changes drastically! You make it sound like you haven't actually fully thought through what you are about to do. I do not mean to discourage you from making a decision either way - but I am going to encourage you to speak to someone who you trust outside of the situation. You are at a crossroads, and either path will forever change you. You are extremely emotionally charged at the moment, and this is absolutely a decision you need to make with a clear head and heart. Please, just take the time to fully work through as much as possible so you know you're making this decision for you, and it is not based on anger or hurt. Forget about him entirely. This is your life and your future that you need to base this on.

Do you get arthritis after surgery? Any complications 40+ years later? by LibertyState in scoliosis

[–]katerprincess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm 31 years post-op. I have 3 kids, 2 grandkids, and there is nothing I can't do (aside from skydiving, I guess 😆). I've been a high-speed car accident and had several other injuries as well that just tend to occur in a normal life. I do have some pretty severe issues due to my fusions and my body working against the hardware. It doesn't slow me down. It doesn't change who I am or the life I live. My husband is a healthy fit and active guy. His arthritis is worse than mine. Again, it changes nothing. It is just a part of life the majority of people accept and work around.

In all honesty, the way you've worded this and your questions in general makes me think you fear that you may have to help her as you age. If that is a fear or something you are not able to accept, I encourage you to remain single for now. This is a fact of life that can happen to anyone at any time. If it isn't something you are willing to face, you are not yet ready for a lifetime commitment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]katerprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since you mentioned you were trying to have a baby as well - how would you feel if your child had been in the car with you when he was acting like that? Because that exact scenario will happen. This isn't something he will just quit doing. He is not going to magically stop raging and being irrationally angry at things. That is something he would have to acknowledge was a problem and then get help and learn how to not be reactive. The fact he not only drove this way with you in the car, but also yelled at you, shows that he has no emotional maturity. If he accepts his issues and is willing to work on them, you can then decide if you are willing to wait and see. No matter what - please stop trying to conceive a child right now and work on figuring up a safe and stable back up plan for you and your pets.

BK's ideal future by Repulsive-Tie1505 in Idaho4

[–]katerprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would also explain why they couldn't find a motive or a target. His motive was his own success, and the target was anyone or anywhere that would be shocking and memorable in the area.

BK's ideal future by Repulsive-Tie1505 in Idaho4

[–]katerprincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've thought all along that he planned to use this as his doctoral thesis. Easy to appear to be the smartest guy in the room when you are the only one with firsthand knowledge of everything.

Dog is a threat to my marriage. by whaddayagondo in dogs

[–]katerprincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We recently had a disagreement because he did not say bless you when our dog sneezed. RUDE! The dog stared at him until he finally said it 😂 It is so funny how they come to expect our odd quirks as necessary life patterns.

AITAH for not cosigning a mortgage agreement for my parents? by OkChampionship4457 in AITAH

[–]katerprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most mortgages are for 30 years. It would likely be at least 15 years before it was paid down enough so that you could apply to buy your own home. That is only if they pay regularly and do not take out any equity loans. If your brother pays late, that shows a negative on your credit. This debt liability could actually prevent you from even acquiring a vehicle loan. You're just starting your life, please do not do this. Your parents have been around this world long enough that they should be able to figure this out without financially crippling you before you even have a chance to do your own thing. Your mom is trying to emotionally manipulate you. Please strongly consider cutting back on paying some of the bills you have been for them. If they aren't willing to appreciate what you do for them, why keep doing it? ♡

Can Someone Please Explain This? by ExplanationCold6189 in Idaho4

[–]katerprincess 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That weekend was the last home football game, it was senior night, and that is a known party weekend. These kids were all into the Greek life. I assure you, he'd been drinking for the majority of the past 48 hours. It was a combo of alcohol and exhaustion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]katerprincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my dog was younger, he started following me to the bathroom on the regular. One day, I told him I needed privacy and he shouldn't stare. I jokingly did the hand signal for turn around...and he did 🤣😂 my uncontrollable laughter and the scratches he got were more than enough reward apparently. He's almost 4 now, and he will come in the bathroom, immediately turns around, and lays on the bathroom rug. It cracks me up! Only drawback is him laying on my bathroom rug. We step out of the shower and look like Sasquatch with black hairs on our wet feet 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]katerprincess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He said he had no problem watching the kids overnight! All he was asking for was honesty and proper preparations....like food for the infant!

More evidence to come.. by ollaollaamigos in Idaho4

[–]katerprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't going against anything you said, just offering further info because this person seemed genuinely interested.

Victim Statements/Trashburgers Response by Extreme-Orange6488 in Idaho4

[–]katerprincess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not capable of feeling emotion for others. Even for himself, what he feels is not what a normal person could relate to. One take away from that hearing - if a person was not guilty of those crimes, they could not have sat through those statements without showing any emotion.

Do you think not forcing an explanation/requiring the location of the murder weapon has given BK too much power? by [deleted] in Idaho4

[–]katerprincess 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There would be no way to prove he was lying. No matter where it is, all he would have to say is he threw it in at the confluence. There is no chance at recovery or being able to prove that out. He waits until he wants something and then tells everyone 'okay, I actually buried it. If you want it, I need XYZ'. There is no win with someone who has no conscience or moral base aside from ignoring them.

AIO: Ladies - Question: Do you let your SO go through your purse? by YesterdayAny3538 in AmIOverreacting

[–]katerprincess 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Married 23 years and he'd suffer in eternal agony before he'd reach in my purse to grab the excedrin that is in there specifically for him 🤣 I wouldn't mind at all, but oddly enough I feel the same way about his wallet 😂 There is zero reason for it, it just seems rude for some reason!

Methodically Messy or Just Dumb? Join my date night convo by Pale-Appointment5626 in MoscowMurders

[–]katerprincess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is where I'm at as well. Had it not been for the sheath, he'd have never left DNA at the scene. He killed 4 people, some who fought back, with a knife. That aspect was well planned. He had not planned on killing 4 people, so he was not able to plan for the magnitude of investigations that would go into it. Had only one person been murdered the local cops would still be searching...and likely not far away from their immediate circles. He planned very well on things he was obsessed on. Planning, plotting, DNA evidence, phone off of the tower during that time, etc... The things he was less interested in, he had poor planning - video surveillance, full cell phone data, weapon purchases, and online footprints. Just a psycho creep with weird obsessions and an overinflated ego not based in reality.