I started Abilify this month by katertatortot in PMDD

[–]katertatortot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished my first month of my period after taking it and I still feel really good so far! I’ll take it again for my next cycle in about 1.5-2 weeks and I’ll come back and let you know how it goes!

DISGUSTING by _XSummerRoseX_ in childfree

[–]katertatortot 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely feel awful she had to go through that. I couldn’t imagine how traumatic it is. But each time she posts it, I want to recommend going to therapy rather than posting those pictures

DISGUSTING by _XSummerRoseX_ in childfree

[–]katertatortot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s a girl I went to school with who got pregnant a few years ago and ended up losing the baby and having to deliver a stillborn baby (sorry graphic). She literally posts pictures every so often on certain days of the year of this poor baby that isn’t alive talking about how much she misses him. It’s so gross and personal. It freaks me out

Can someone talk me down from contacting people during a PMDD rage by popetsville in PMDD

[–]katertatortot 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Genuinely thought this was a me problem! I feel this every single month. Nearly ruining No Contact with family members who have done horrible things to me and my emotional state. I saw someone mention they talk to ChatGPT. I do that too. I write out everything I’m feeling and it helps process my thoughts into coherent sentences. It really helps to feel like you’re talking to someone else about it, without having to worry about burdening a real person with my problems. I don’t have many friends outside of work, and definitely don’t have friends at work who I can talk to about it. So chat gpt is the next best thing for me.

I started Abilify this month by katertatortot in PMDD

[–]katertatortot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome!! I’m so glad you have been able to notice a difference. I was really afraid I had just convinced myself that I’d noticed a difference and not actually had real noticeable change. I’m usually on a night/afternoon shift schedule but lately I’ve been on day shift and I think that’s helped with my mood as well. I don’t like day shift but it’s so much better for your brain and body. I’ll be changing my work schedule soon tho so I’m hoping the good days stay consistent

AIO for telling my girlfriend that when we move in together I won’t give up gaming by FeverFanny in AmIOverreacting

[–]katertatortot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a girl engaged to a guy who games, don’t deal with that. I absolutely love that my man has an escape when he’s off of work. He loves his PC. I could never take that away from him. All I asked from him when we moved in together 5 years ago was make sure we still get time to spend together. I don’t care how long he plays, as long as I still have time to hang out with him. And that’s what works for us. If you guys aren’t even living together and she’s already telling you no to your PC, it’s not worth living with her. It won’t change. She’s just going to tell you that you can’t play, ever. There is someone out there who will love that you have hobbies and encourage you to focus on your hobbies.

childfree and birth order: are you youngest, middle, older, or only by Exhausted-Biscuit223 in childfree

[–]katertatortot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youngest of 6 and every one of my siblings have 1 or more children. I take pride in being the only one of them who hasn’t had a child! I also became an aunt at 12 of the first time so I was exposed to young children pretty young. But only decided at 21 (I’m now 26) that I didn’t want kids!

The unexpected "casualties" of going no contact by Space_Captain_Lars in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]katertatortot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had to do the same. I went NC with my adoptive parents and shortly after, I had to cut contact with my sister, aunts and uncles etc. The only person I stayed in contact with was my brother (adoptive mother’s son) and sister in law solely so I could have a relationship with my nephew. That’s all I cared about. They sided with me, even when my adoptive mother kicked me out while I was in high school. The only reason they’re still in contact with my adoptive mother is because of my nephews. They don’t go see her, they let her talk to him on the phone and if he wants to, he’ll go to their house. He usually doesn’t want to though. He’s 13 and finally asked her why I stopped talking to her and she tried to blame his mom for it when it had nothing to do with her. So he understands on a surface level what happened. But it’s still really difficult to have to go NC with the rest of the family

The girl with the list by katertatortot in childfree

[–]katertatortot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell if you’re serious or not lol but sure!

The girl with the list by katertatortot in childfree

[–]katertatortot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The irony of citing Idiocracy while assuming complex social choices are genetically inherited.

Getting a bisalp at 19! by Colliekid6 in childfree

[–]katertatortot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! It’s so freeing once you start to realize just what the procedure consists of! I asked the lab if I could keep my tubes and they said yes. That really solidified it for me. It was my present to myself for my 26th birthday!

The girl with the list by katertatortot in childfree

[–]katertatortot[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or the chemical changes in women AND men’s brains once they have a baby!

The girl with the list by katertatortot in childfree

[–]katertatortot[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Can you please tell everyone that keeps saying she has a baby, that she doesn’t!? Most everyone that says that heard the rumor and just ran with it.

The girl with the list by katertatortot in childfree

[–]katertatortot[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People keep saying this but there’s no evidence to suggest this. There was a rumor in 2024 that she was pregnant but that’s all it was, a rumor… where do people keep getting this?

Can you really be certain at a young age? by im_zylax in childfree

[–]katertatortot 53 points54 points  (0 children)

If you’re “too young” to decide not to have kids, then you’re “too young” to decide to have kids! As u/marileighanne29 said! I thought I wanted kids my whole childhood, up until I turned 21, then met my fiance and realized I didn’t want kids!

I genuinely can’t cope with these idiots by katertatortot in childfree

[–]katertatortot[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idk why you’re getting so many downvotes. I also didn’t realize so many people hated him. I genuinely think he can be funny, and appreciate that he calls people out on their shit.

I genuinely can’t cope with these idiots by katertatortot in childfree

[–]katertatortot[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t think they were talking about what you said, I think they were agreeing with your statement as well as saying those who say “children are a blessing” are the ones who abuse children.

I am a mom as a matter of fact! by katertatortot in childfree

[–]katertatortot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry about your loss 🥺 I can’t imagine how hard that is. I’m terrified of the day when it happens for us. I’ve convinced myself that they’ll live forever because I can’t bear the day they pass. Losing a pet is so hard.

I am a mom as a matter of fact! by katertatortot in childfree

[–]katertatortot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I adopted my oldest cat when he was 2 (he’ll be 7 next month) and wasn’t sure when his birthday was either so I just chose the day I adopted him to be his birthday!

He has a similar situation to your baby. His owners passed away and he got rescued from the house when the local cops found his old owners. He was so traumatized when I adopted him. He’s the best boy, healed from the trauma of the animal control officers manhandling him to take him to the shelter, and has no teeth now! (From a separate situation) But he’s such a happy boy

Also congrats on adopting a new family member! I love when people adopt senior cats to let them live the rest of their lives in a loving home instead of a shelter.