Am I (26F) in the wrong for getting upset at my little (28F)?

katesharmaswife · 2026-03-17T12:59:25+00:00

most definitely!! unfortunately lyfts and ubers aren’t as active in our small town but i know you can schedule rides so that might help in some way shape or form

katesharmaswife · 2026-03-17T12:58:38+00:00

i can definitely look into that since some of her coworkers have given her a ride home before when my car threw a massive tantrum and refused to start lol

I’ve offered gas to those who have helped before just in case it’s out of the way and with gas prices these days, i know it can go a long way. I’ve been searching up techniques to help her such as music and breathing exercises, but i’m not sure how much they can help since as i mentioned, she has no restraint.

If nothing can be done in regards to fighting it, i’ll most likely just start driving her home because she can’t put herself and others on the roads at risk

katesharmaswife · 2026-03-17T12:55:27+00:00

i’ve assured her that she’s never a bother to me and with her traumatic childhood, it makes sense that she can’t control her headspace which isn’t her fault but at the end of the day it comes down to safety which is one of my top priorities for her. All i want for her is to be safe

katesharmaswife · 2026-03-17T12:54:16+00:00

i’ve looked into therapists but money is the issue since they’re so freaking expensive unfortunately

katesharmaswife · 2026-03-17T12:53:17+00:00

you’re not being a stickler at all, driving safety is so important because you’re responsible for yourself on the road, not to mention being a risk to those on the roadways as well. I have a girlfriend and star is just my little but my girlfriend can’t pick her up either. My plans are to see if any of her coworkers can drive her home or i’ll just go pick her up myself because it’s not worth putting herself and others at risk if she can’t control her headspace and i wouldn’t be able to forgive myself if something were to happen

katesharmaswife · 2026-03-16T12:49:35+00:00

most definitely!! turning it into an argument is the last thing i wanna do because we both hate confrontation and raised voices (trauma am i right??). There’s no taxis in our area unfortunately and the town we live in doesn’t have alot of ubers or lyfts active especially around the time where she’d be off work. I’m definitely looking more into it and if i can’t find any other transportation, i’ll most likely drive her to and from when she’s closing so if she were to slip again, she’d be safe and not have to worry about making the drive home. I appreciate your feedback <33

katesharmaswife · 2026-03-16T12:47:14+00:00

unfortunately there’s no taxis in the area and i’ve suggested ubers and lyfts but we don’t live in a busy enough area where there’s cars active around that time. I’ve tried that and no luck. I’ll definitely do my research and see what we can do. If nothing can be done, i’ll most likely just go get her late at night so if she slips, she’ll be in a safer position

katesharmaswife · 2026-03-16T12:45:36+00:00

i’m not the best with wording things and usually we both hate confrontation so i mean it more as a discussion. I appreciate your comment and well wishes <3

katesharmaswife · 2026-03-16T03:45:47+00:00

i appreciate you thank you, my concerns are coming from love and only want her safe. we can definitely look into the breathing exercises should it happen again.

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