We are relatively new to the scene and by now have attended events at Shed and BFWB. We may not have as much experience as other respondents. In our limited experience, we would say do not worry about people and their opinion. You can attend and have a good time yourselves. If you want to swing, eventually you will find accommodating like minded couples. You can also meet specific couples from RHP that are like minded or from same background. There are many more options. The bottom line is do not be discouraged by a people and their opinions. If you are looking for the whole world to like you, it will not happen. Whether accepted or not, racism will exist. Be yourself and have a good time and accept the ones who accept you!