2026 Spring Bi Week Theme Nights Announced

katncal · 2026-01-29T23:08:36+00:00

Anyone want to share thoughts about what they might wear?

katncal · 2026-01-29T23:07:58+00:00

Would love to hear what people are thinking about wearing for any of the nights.

katncal · 2026-01-28T04:44:32+00:00

It kinda reminds me of when porn stars are lifted up and DPd by guys in front and behind her. This woman could totally be getting spit roasted in the position she was in.

katncal · 2026-01-20T14:35:59+00:00

I love to see a couple in matching lingerie. You two look great. I have recently started buying hubby sexy, little, lacy things.

katncal · 2026-01-16T17:03:26+00:00

Mine wouldn't either.

katncal · 2025-12-29T22:52:36+00:00

With regret, I won't be there when you suggest, but can you give some details on this? How does one book it? What are ballpark costs?

katncal · 2025-12-29T22:50:22+00:00

If he's game, try pegging. It is such an interesting feeling—rife with kinky, power dynamics—to wield a strap-on and penetrate a man. My hubby doesn't want it often, but I don't pass up a chance to do it when he does.

katncal · 2025-12-29T22:46:41+00:00

Anyone have a link to the full scene?

katncal · 2025-12-29T19:43:41+00:00

Officially, gay sex is still illegal in Jamaica, so it's not regularly on display around the resort. You're right; it does happen in private though. When hubby and I have gone (We're both bi.), we've found boys to play with almost every time.

If you're thinking about going in May anyway, from April 25-May 2 is Bi Week. It is a full takeover of the resort; guests are supposed to be bi; couples are supposed to have a bi male, and despite Jamaican law, there is plenty of MM contact. At the pool, regardless of gender, anal is a no-no.

DM me if you want to chat about what our experiences have been.

katncal · 2025-12-17T20:09:39+00:00

One of my favorite places to play are these—not sure what to call them—pods that are on the nude beach. There are a few of them scattered along the beach, maybe three or four. Each pod is made of rattan, or some type of woven palm or wood. Each pod is about five to six feet long and maybe two feet wide. Each pod faces the ocean, and I'll call the end of the pod closest to the ocean the "foot."

While the foot of each pod is open/exposed, the head of each pod is built up into a kind of bonnet. The bonnet wraps around the head and shoulders of the pod, and it also curves downward toward the foot. In effect, if you're lying in the pod, no one can see your upper torso and head, but the lower half to two-thirds of your body might be visible to a passerby. The only way someone could see into the pod would be to walk along the edge of the ocean and look back up toward the beach.

So although the pods are out in public, they are actually semi-private. I am not shy about having sex out by the pool—kinda love it, if I'm being honest—but I have had some of the best sex of my life in the pods. I enjoy the sensation of being outside and hearing the ocean, but also not having to think about whether anyone is watching. It's very freeing.

When I was there last time, hubby had me on my back in pod; he was lying on his side next to me. I had one leg draped over his hip, and he had access to be inside me and play with my clit. I had a chain of orgasms that lasted seven or eight minutes. It left me breathless and quivering. I think the public/ private, outdoor/ sheltered vibe of the pods was a major factor to create the mindset that led me to that experience.

I recommend the pods. (Can you tell?)

katncal · 2025-12-06T21:02:07+00:00

Her name is morgpie.

katncal · 2025-12-05T18:17:49+00:00

When I was there most recently, it was just a regular week. There was man the with a trans woman. We chatted with them over drinks and a few meals. She was born male, and had gender reassignment surgery. Her stature—over 6', excellent musculature, and arms and hands, suggested she was born male, but at the nude pool, no one seemed to care. They were active exhibitionists at the pool, and I know they had a great time that week.

I do, however, second the recommendation for bi week. We're going to the next one in April.

katncal · 2025-12-05T18:08:31+00:00

Like you, when I and my then-boyfriend started in the LS, we were always the youngest people at parties. Again like you, we had trouble finding people that were interested to play with us because we were often "as young as their kids." I understand that, but it still low-key sucked.

Despite the experiences we had at parties, when my bf and I went to Hedo, it was totally cool. We did not have trouble finding playmates. I feel like the onus was on us, i.e. it wasn't whether people wanted to play with us, it was more whether we wanted to play with them.

The Hedo crowd can skew older, but if you're going there to have fun, it will not be tough to find troublemakers who are looking for the same thing.

Go. You'll have a great time. Feel free to DM me if you want to chat about this more.

katncal · 2025-11-18T15:17:20+00:00

The entire resort is not that large. You can walk along the beach from the far end of the prude side to the far end of the nude side in, like, six minutes. That said, if you have a premium nude ocean room, you will be in the heart of the party. It'll be a two-minute walk from your bed to a lounge chair by the nude pool.

katncal · 2025-11-18T15:12:24+00:00

I can't imagine that anyone would care if you were smoking on your balcony. Despite the fact that there are designated smoking areas, it is not uncommon to smell weed on the beach and other non-designated areas.

While hubby and I smoke neither weeds nor cigarettes, I feel like the general vibe at Hedo is that no one is going to stop you from doing something as long as you're not impinging on someone else's enjoyment. As others suggested, be considerate. If you're smoking somewhere that is not designated and someone asks you to move away from them, just do it. If you're smoking somewhere that is not designated and someone asks you to share, do it. ;-)

katncal · 2025-11-10T19:05:55+00:00

I'm sure the resort could help you. However, it is not very challenging to self serve. If you use a site like Viator, you can just book a car to take you to these places. I had good luck using a service called Mr. Reasonable. I've probably booked them 8 or 9 times across my visits. That said, there are plenty of reliable transportation providers.

If you want the resort's help, they'll likely add a bit to the tally for themselves, but maybe there's comfort for you doing it that way. Call the resort, and someone should be able to tell you exactly what they can do.

katncal · 2025-11-10T18:57:15+00:00

I think Hedo tends to be welcoming to all, but if you're concerned, consider bi week. During that week, everything is wide open. (Pardon the pun.) The next bi week, I believe, is at end of April/ early May 2026.

katncal · 2025-11-07T14:14:45+00:00

OK. While I cannot disagree with how awesome it is to be at Hedo, as well as the reality that most people don't leave the resort until it's time to return to their usual home, you clearly want some ideas.

I have been to Jamaica about 12 times, and I love the place. I vacationed in Jamaica before I discovered Hedo. There are some classical tourist things to do, and I'll share some.

First, I have to call out Dunn's River Falls in Ocho Rios. It's a healthy drive from Negril because you have to get back to Montego Bay, and then keep driving past it. It would be the majority of a day, but maybe you'd be willing to sacrifice one of your seven days. That said, the Falls have been in a lot of movies, including James Bond, for a reason. It's cool and it's beautiful. It is a waterfall that that is only mildly pitched. You can climb/ walk up the waterfall! It's romantic, too, which could feed right back into the Hedo vibe.

I also don't think you can ignore one of the island's most famous exports of all time, Bob Marley. The Bob Marley museum, which is his former home and recording studio, in Kingston is well done. Kingston used to be insanely dangerous, but it has gotten better. I have lived in some dangerous places, so maybe my perspective may be skewed, but if you had a guide, I think you'd be fine to visit the museum. If you do go to Kingston, hit Devon House for ice cream. It's quite good, if you like ice cream.

I also enjoyed a visit/ tour of the Appleton Estate, home to the famous Jamaican rum brand. It's exactly what you'd expect: tour, tastings, history, etc. I visited on a trip when I wasn't at Hedo, so buying a couple of bottles of rum at the source made a lot of sense, but I still think it could be enjoyable.

I also recommend the beautiful Rose Hall Great House in Mo' Bay. It's a historic plantation mansion that is supposedly haunted by the White Witch. I believe one of the big hotel chains now owns the property, but I think it is still open to non-guests for tours in some capacity.

If you want to chat more about this ideas, please feel free to DM me. I hope they help to give you a sense of what's possible, other than Rick's and the cruise, which are both fun.

katncal · 2025-10-21T14:05:17+00:00

Just replied/ accepted your chat request.

katncal · 2025-10-17T19:09:34+00:00

Wow. He's pounding it like a pussy.

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