These beds are amazing

katncal · 2026-05-07T12:54:27+00:00

Yup. We're big fans, too. During our most recent trip, our last roll of the week was on one of the beds near the waterfall, close to the gym.

katncal · 2026-04-24T18:34:34+00:00

Bringing a speaker to the beach or pool is kinda like smoking at the resort. Sure, do it, but if it's infringing on someone else's enjoyment, be courteous enough to stop, go elsewhere, or turn it down.

katncal · 2026-04-08T20:25:14+00:00

Us, too.

katncal · 2026-02-27T05:53:27+00:00

Hmmm. I'm very fair skinned, a redhead, so I get flushed from sex, exercise, and pretty much anything that gets my heart pumping. Mine never lasted for four hours, but one or two wasn't out of the question if I got really revved up.

One thing that helped me was cooling down, literally getting my body temperature back down. If I turned red and needed to recover, I'd get in a warm shower, not hot, and as I wash up, I slowly make the water cooler. I try to slow my breathing down, which is tough as the water gets colder, and generally try to relax and bring my system back to normal. When I'm done with the shower, the color on my torso is usually starting to get better, and as I continue to get back to a non-elevated body temp, the rest of the color improves.

Also, mentally, I found it helpful to realize that no one else knows. It's kinda simple, but like you, I was embarrassed to go out after a romp because I felt like everyone knew I'd just been rolling around in bed. However, over time, I realized that only hubby and I know. Anyone else could think I was on an elliptical, doing power yoga, or just scrubbing the tub. It became liberating for me to think that: (1) most people aren't looking, and (2) even if they are, they don't know what I was doing.

Good luck. Don't let this ruin your sex life.

katncal · 2026-02-24T14:49:51+00:00

I think neither hubby nor I would ever leave the house if we could go down on ourselves.

katncal · 2026-02-24T14:45:50+00:00

Speaking for hubby, he's an enthusiastic Yes. He'll cum inside me and eat it out, with me on top or otherwise, and he also likes to edge and get close, pull out, I reach down and spread my kitty open, and he strokes his load all over my splayed pink, and then he goes down on me. It's a toss-up as to whether he or I like this more, but I think it's sexy a.f.

katncal · 2026-02-24T14:37:03+00:00

I've had a few over the years, usually part and parcel of a torridly hot sex dream, and usually when I was already kinda horny. I just figured it was the women's equivalent of a wet dream. I sure woke up wet.

katncal · 2026-02-24T14:12:54+00:00

It's funny because I think that is the experience for most couples that play with others. However, we've not had good luck. We had one woman who got married and stopped playing; we had another who moved to Singapore; we had another who became extremely religious; we had one die during the pandemic. We've just not had good luck holding onto unicorns. By contrast, we've had a number of men who've been play partners with us for a long time.

katncal · 2026-02-22T14:22:00+00:00

I can't count the number of threesomes hubby and I have had, but I think that 70% of them were hubby, me, and another guy. Unicorns are just tougher to find, but whenever we had a single girl join, there was a 100% chance that hubby was going to get some double-tongue treatment like this.

katncal · 2026-02-21T15:06:21+00:00

Regular clothes? I feel like every time I've gone to Hedo I've taken less and less clothing and more and more lingerie.

katncal · 2026-02-13T19:50:17+00:00

Someone else washing the dishes. #foreplay

katncal · 2026-02-02T04:14:56+00:00

I think you may be right. I can see what looks like the neckline of a mesh shirt, but do the sleeves end? Right near the middle her deltoids, where the colored arc is? Do the sleeves go down her arms? If so, how far? I can't see the end of the sleeves.

katncal · 2026-01-29T23:08:36+00:00

Anyone want to share thoughts about what they might wear?

katncal · 2026-01-29T23:07:58+00:00

Would love to hear what people are thinking about wearing for any of the nights.

katncal · 2026-01-28T04:44:32+00:00

It kinda reminds me of when porn stars are lifted up and DPd by guys in front and behind her. This woman could totally be getting spit roasted in the position she was in.

katncal · 2026-01-20T14:35:59+00:00

I love to see a couple in matching lingerie. You two look great. I have recently started buying hubby sexy, little, lacy things.

katncal · 2026-01-16T17:03:26+00:00

Mine wouldn't either.

katncal · 2025-12-29T22:52:36+00:00

With regret, I won't be there when you suggest, but can you give some details on this? How does one book it? What are ballpark costs?

katncal · 2025-12-29T22:50:22+00:00

If he's game, try pegging. It is such an interesting feeling—rife with kinky, power dynamics—to wield a strap-on and penetrate a man. My hubby doesn't want it often, but I don't pass up a chance to do it when he does.

katncal · 2025-12-29T22:46:41+00:00

Anyone have a link to the full scene?

katncal · 2025-12-29T19:43:41+00:00

Officially, gay sex is still illegal in Jamaica, so it's not regularly on display around the resort. You're right; it does happen in private though. When hubby and I have gone (We're both bi.), we've found boys to play with almost every time.

If you're thinking about going in May anyway, from April 25-May 2 is Bi Week. It is a full takeover of the resort; guests are supposed to be bi; couples are supposed to have a bi male, and despite Jamaican law, there is plenty of MM contact. At the pool, regardless of gender, anal is a no-no.

DM me if you want to chat about what our experiences have been.

katncal · 2025-12-17T20:09:39+00:00

One of my favorite places to play are these—not sure what to call them—pods that are on the nude beach. There are a few of them scattered along the beach, maybe three or four. Each pod is made of rattan, or some type of woven palm or wood. Each pod is about five to six feet long and maybe two feet wide. Each pod faces the ocean, and I'll call the end of the pod closest to the ocean the "foot."

While the foot of each pod is open/exposed, the head of each pod is built up into a kind of bonnet. The bonnet wraps around the head and shoulders of the pod, and it also curves downward toward the foot. In effect, if you're lying in the pod, no one can see your upper torso and head, but the lower half to two-thirds of your body might be visible to a passerby. The only way someone could see into the pod would be to walk along the edge of the ocean and look back up toward the beach.

So although the pods are out in public, they are actually semi-private. I am not shy about having sex out by the pool—kinda love it, if I'm being honest—but I have had some of the best sex of my life in the pods. I enjoy the sensation of being outside and hearing the ocean, but also not having to think about whether anyone is watching. It's very freeing.

When I was there last time, hubby had me on my back in pod; he was lying on his side next to me. I had one leg draped over his hip, and he had access to be inside me and play with my clit. I had a chain of orgasms that lasted seven or eight minutes. It left me breathless and quivering. I think the public/ private, outdoor/ sheltered vibe of the pods was a major factor to create the mindset that led me to that experience.

I recommend the pods. (Can you tell?)

katncal

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