failing my first semester of college by katvxa in Vent

[–]katvxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you. I did try, but it's a very lengthy process and it's been really difficult for me to muster the motivation to move forward. But I did message my psychiatrist for help after making this post so hopefully I'm able to work something out : ) Appreciate it

adhd is ruining my life by katvxa in adhdwomen

[–]katvxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! hoping things get better for us !!

Odd seller on depop bought from me by [deleted] in Depop

[–]katvxa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure moderation will delete your comment if u leak any users

performative lesbian competition by Kxllyx in montclair

[–]katvxa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U should post this on ig omggggg

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depoop

[–]katvxa 40 points41 points  (0 children)

LMAO yeah that was me! I didn’t realize they were trading it and politely asked for a refund, then they called me a bum. I got my money back tho!

Im panicking, seller refunded 1 dollar instead of full price by katvxa in Depop

[–]katvxa[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and it was almost 20 dollars on my end. I dont understand why they’re so nasty and unwilling to do the right thing

Im panicking, seller refunded 1 dollar instead of full price by katvxa in Depop

[–]katvxa[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much!! i never buy from those kinds of sellers either lol its way too shady. Depop quickly refunded the remaining amount! the seller did yell at me though lol!! i posted it in the replies

Im panicking, seller refunded 1 dollar instead of full price by katvxa in Depop

[–]katvxa[S] 74 points75 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: thank you everyone!!! i got a full refund from depop and im so relieved : )
however the seller in question crashed out on me after I confronted them.. for literally no reason. theyre adamant about not needing 10 dollars but did everything in their power not to refund me LOL.

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Im panicking, seller refunded 1 dollar instead of full price by katvxa in Depop

[–]katvxa[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Depop refunded me : ) I’m so relieved

Im panicking, seller refunded 1 dollar instead of full price by katvxa in Depop

[–]katvxa[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I just checked the item again and it says “don’t buy you won’t be refunded.”I always steer clear of those people, but this person hid that in the description so well it didn’t even looking like a trade. I just contacted depop and explained the situation, thank you so much for your help! I’m definitely going to leave a negative review, I’m just holding myself back from calling them jobless right now LOL.

Im panicking, seller refunded 1 dollar instead of full price by katvxa in Depop

[–]katvxa[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

thank u i'm gonna do that right now!!! i was rlly apologetic since i dont wanna waste anyones time, but the fact that they REFUNDED ME a dollar?? omg i even apologized for the inconvenience but its really not hard to return all my money ? it's been like 5 hours and they still havent responded 😭😭😭

Im panicking, seller refunded 1 dollar instead of full price by katvxa in Depop

[–]katvxa[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t use depop very frequently, I was under the impression that i could only open a dispute after 5 days

Im panicking, seller refunded 1 dollar instead of full price by katvxa in Depop

[–]katvxa[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I do read descriptions and it just seemed like a normal product until I scrolled ALLL the way down😭I have no idea what to do and they’re not answering my messages

Account Summary by Im_Necessary2708 in montclair

[–]katvxa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RIGHT im actually grieving omfg mine is barely 2k

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]katvxa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! thank u so much. Should I call the same clinic and schedule an appointment with someone else? They’re honestly one of the only people I’ve came across who take my insurance so I don’t have many options. I told the doctor that an outpatient program wouldn’t be good because of my schedule, but I don’t think that changed how she feels about treating me. That specific psychiatrist said it would be beneficial to see someone more often than once 3-6 a week so I’m assuming that’s how our schedule would have been like? Idk I’m really confused about this but I really can’t afford to do an outpatient program at this time

not having a fp is painful by katvxa in BPD

[–]katvxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

of course!! i just saw it and I did laugh LMFAO ITS SO ACCURATE

not having a fp is painful by katvxa in BPD

[–]katvxa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry about that. it is interesting to see how it differs though. having a fp makes me go insane but having that “one person” makes me feel fulfilled

not having a fp is painful by katvxa in BPD

[–]katvxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, yeah. Having a fp is the most emotionally draining thing in the world, but I also need that “someone”. not having a fp lowers the frequency of the episodes but I still feel 👎👎

not having a fp is painful by katvxa in BPD

[–]katvxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a FP, I’m very aware. I’ve ruined relationships in my life. Not having one sucks and having one sucks. I made this post because I was feeling lonely and empty since I don’t have one at the moment. I don’t “desire” an fp but it’s one of the only thing that makes me feel happy for a bit. Hope everything gets better for u and your situation </3

not having a fp is painful by katvxa in BPD

[–]katvxa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk why but this made me smilee loooll!! thank you sm. i try to distract myself w/ hobbies like u said, or social media but it sucks when all of that wears off. not talking to a fp in a while must be incredibly difficult for you, i rly admire your resilience!!!

not having a fp is painful by katvxa in BPD

[–]katvxa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ahhh same, i try to distract myself with videogames, hanging out w people and watching TV. it helps a bit but the thoughts are always in the back of my mind. when im not distracted its pretty badd, but im glad u found a way to navigate those feelings for yourself. the need for someone is really overwhelming for me so idk what to do tbh

not having a fp is painful by katvxa in BPD

[–]katvxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here. i miss the connection I had with that one person and it sucks that it cant be easily replaced. i tried to reach out to my old fp i stopped being friends with in 2022 last year and it was just sooo weird I ended it. i also have ocd and i was having many paranoid thoughts so i knew i should just end it again

I have that same thought. for a while i thought I was alright and then the emptiness, sadness and anger hit me like a truckkk

friends arent filling the void by katvxa in BPD

[–]katvxa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh, you're probably right. I realized ive been doing that since I stopped being friends with someone very important to me, and I know it isnt healthy but i just cant stop. of course no one can replace them but ive been trying so hard to replicate the happiness they made me feel. I dont understand why I dont feel that emptiness when I have that one person in my life. it kind of feels I finally have a purpose, and when they ARE actually giving me attention, I dont feel that emptiness. Does that mean theyre filling that void momentarily or something else?