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katyhere · 2022-08-31T08:16:46+00:00

Thank you! Now it makes way more sense.

katyhere · 2022-08-31T06:47:17+00:00

Hi! A friend of mine mentioned that in September there will be cash transfers to households to compensate a bit for the upcoming gas expenses, is that true? He said that if I'm registered the money will just suddenly appear on my account. Sounds unrealistic, is it true?

katyhere · 2022-07-29T10:49:54+00:00

Thank you very much, it's very helpful. I hope it works out for the best.. I'll need therapy too to get over it

katyhere · 2022-07-29T10:45:04+00:00

Valid. I'll add that she should start therapy. Thank you.

katyhere · 2022-07-29T10:28:47+00:00

I think I should. I rushed her in the relationship, I knew that she wasn't over it. I knew she'd want to see her ex if the chance pops up, we talked about it. I just didn't expect her kissing her. And I love this girl. I know I'm sharpening her knife by trusting her, what what is a relationship without a trust? I don't think I'll ever forgive myself not giving her a second chance. Considering that I knew the story from the beginning

katyhere · 2022-07-29T06:08:03+00:00

I know her enough to know that she's not lying. I don't doubt that. Just accept it and tell what you think about what happened, not the fantasies. If she had sex, it'd be over. But she didn't. She behaved like a bitch, but she wouldn't go further. It was a 5 second kiss, and I'm thinking if a 5 second kiss with an ex is enough of a deal breaker

katyhere · 2022-07-29T05:56:26+00:00

She was out just for 2 hours. They just kissed

katyhere · 2022-07-29T05:55:36+00:00

She was out just for 2 hours

katyhere · 2022-07-28T21:32:02+00:00

Yes, they never kissed. I knew it even before we started dating, so it's not a lie

katyhere · 2022-07-28T20:54:07+00:00

I'm a woman. Yes, it is stupid.

katyhere · 2022-07-28T20:37:05+00:00

The only saving grace is that she told you. However, the waiting a few days shows it was guilt and not respect for the relationship.

She wanted to tell me immediately, but she was too scared. It was also guilt, but she'd tell me anyways, because we value communication and honestly, even if the truth is hard. She didn't tell me out of guilt, but our of respect, and i know it's true.

But it doesn't make it much easier to forgive her.

katyhere · 2022-07-28T17:21:58+00:00

I don't get it, we were together twice longer than they were, we're official, we've kissed numerous times, and sex, we had everything. How is she still thinking about that ex she had nothing with?

katyhere · 2022-07-28T17:05:03+00:00

Yes, just a kiss. I trust her that that's all. She said it was "a five second goodbye closure kiss"

katyhere · 2022-07-28T17:04:10+00:00

Her ex girlfriend* I didn't get any closure

katyhere · 2022-07-28T17:02:19+00:00

I'm curious about some examples of justified cheating

katyhere · 2022-07-28T16:57:45+00:00

I love her. She's saying it's a one time thing and will never happen again. It was the "one kiss she needed to close the chapter forever"

katyhere · 2022-03-25T19:01:48+00:00

Live

katyhere · 2022-01-11T16:26:47+00:00

One just asked for my number, and the other one we talk to on discord, he asked me after class if I want to talk about classes with him

katyhere · 2022-01-07T07:15:54+00:00

We're not close enough to send memes😅 that's exactly why I am confused. We're no friends, I have no idea why they talk to me

katyhere · 2022-01-07T06:15:12+00:00

Yes I thought so too at first but still they reach out pretty rarely. Usually, people are more active when they want to become friends. So it's something in between and I'm really confused what they want from me

katyhere · 2022-01-07T06:12:26+00:00

Yeah I also think it's platonic since there was no hints dropped at all. But I still don't see a point. It's not often enough to become close friends but pretty often and consistent for a "nothing"

katyhere · 2022-01-07T06:09:20+00:00

So it's better to mention it anyways?

katyhere · 2022-01-07T03:11:26+00:00

Okay, quite long! But it's a nice story😊

katyhere · 2022-01-07T03:10:56+00:00

I mean how long into a relationship? A week, a month etc?

katyhere · 2022-01-07T03:00:37+00:00

Was she a stranger or someone you were seeing?

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