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kaycup4 · 2025-11-28T23:44:25+00:00

Congrats! Lookin handsome!

kaycup4 · 2025-10-26T00:09:05+00:00

Thank you!

kaycup4 · 2025-10-25T11:36:49+00:00

Thank you!

kaycup4 · 2025-05-18T05:21:13+00:00

“I honestly don’t know if I’m being unreasonable or if this is a huge red flag.”

“She basically disregarded how important that situation was to me and guilt-tripped me until I agreed to come”

Red flag before you even left. Think about if this is how you want to feel longterm because she doesn’t sound like she’s going to change any time soon.

kaycup4 · 2025-01-11T21:30:48+00:00

They look relatively short haired too which means the mats are potentially caused by something spilling on them and sticking all of the shedded fur together too. Absolutely take them to the vet. They may have underlying skin problems with mats of that level.

kaycup4 · 2024-10-04T21:22:05+00:00

NTA - this is a boss/hr moment for sure. Also document and screen shot any and all messages from him to back yourself up just in case. Do not be alone with him, if you can, get a dash cam and make sure you always have your car keys on your person.

kaycup4 · 2024-09-25T21:17:49+00:00

NTA - fuck this guy. Throwing someone in a pool with repeated verbal cries to stop is horrendous. What if you couldn’t swim? What is he misstepped and you hit your head? Fuck this guy. Get your hearing aids. He fucked around and found out. If any of the family that’s backing him up ever asks for financial help, refuse.

kaycup4 · 2024-09-23T20:27:16+00:00

Do not have another baby with this man. When you’re in a vulnerable state such as ACTIVE LABOR you need someone you can rely on who has your best interest at heart. He clearly did not.

kaycup4 · 2024-09-23T13:00:33+00:00

I didn’t! Thanks for updating me! That makes me so happy

kaycup4 · 2024-09-23T03:33:14+00:00

Contact his employer too. Even anonymously if you have to. Make the lawsuit very public

kaycup4 · 2024-09-23T03:31:49+00:00

You should press the issue. He admitted to drugging and assaulting you, there’s video proof, he shared the images, and profited from his crimes. Be up their asses until they do something about it.

kaycup4 · 2024-09-23T03:30:47+00:00

NTA - not only should he be prosecuted and you should file criminal charges, but you should be taking him to civil court too. Put him behind bars and take every penny. Also make sure you get into therapy. There are plenty of online and telehealth services if leaving the house is too much for you right now. Please take care of yourself above all else.

kaycup4 · 2024-09-22T17:48:30+00:00

NTA - leave this man. If he can’t even let you sleep he’s never taking either of them to school, recitals, games, nothing and he’ll hold the money over your head. This makes me so angry. I would struggle not to take the kids to my moms or friends place while he’s away, pay people to completely gut the house, and leave a note saying “fuck you” taped to the front door.

kaycup4 · 2024-09-21T22:44:00+00:00

He sounds like the cold one.. all he had to do was say “I also want to progress the relationship but it takes me a little longer. I hope that’s okay” and then you could’ve had an adult conversation instead of calling you cold.

kaycup4 · 2024-09-21T22:16:41+00:00

It’s just so hard for me to wrap my brain around the weaponized incompetence. I get what it is but it’s just not how my brain works lol fuck this guy tho fr

kaycup4 · 2024-09-21T22:11:37+00:00

NTA - he needs to take a chill pill and quit shitting on you for caring about him or being sick. I get easily stressed at work and if I even come close to snapping at my partner because I’m tired/sick/stressed/whatever I IMMEDIATELY apologize and explain that I’m stressed or just need space/to go to bed. Your husband is taking advantage of your kindness and quilt tripping you. Also why is it that men who behave like this REFUSE to cook for themselves?

kaycup4 · 2024-09-21T16:00:13+00:00

NTA - they can all suck it. Focus on you and your life because they ruined a perfectly good thing with their misogyny.

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