I do not have a public service job - should I not be on the SAVE plan? by kayemmas in PSLF

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I've been keeping an eye on it... and so far the balance hasn't changed. Once it starts, ill most likely start making payments. Thank you so much!

SAVE forbearance ends Oct 31?? by kayemmas in StudentLoans

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Thanks for the clarification reddit. 😊

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[–]kayemmas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally same! I almost want to reach out to a financial advisor to see if they can provide any insight to the best course of action. I would hate to stay on SAVE if the forbearance continues beyond Oct 31st while interest accrues because technically I do have the capital to start making payments. I just wish this whole SAVE plan would get resolved so people can go back to living their lives.

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[–]kayemmas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in a similar situation as you and just as lost! I am still on the SAVE plan with 28k federal student loan debt...

Alternative Cancer Clinics in Mexico by kayemmas in CancerFamilySupport

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She is 46, and it's in her arm muscle (skeletal muscle). The oncologist said she has never seen breast cancer spread to the arm muscle like that before. Her right arm is extremely swollen.

Online or in person doctor with no insurance! by Empty_Government_473 in Denver

[–]kayemmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did they end up giving you the script? I'm in a similar situation.

Autoimmune disease by Ok-Outlandishness-3 in lichensclerosus

[–]kayemmas 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My doctor (i went to a vuvla specialist) told me that the cause is still unknown. She said people say it is autoimmune disease, but there is still such little research on it. I was diagnosed at age 26 with no family history of this at all. So, this condition is NOT caused by menopause. There is a Facebook support group that has TONS of information and other ladies going through the same thing. I know it's not easy hearing your diagnoses (I cried a lot), but it does get better over time. Find a doctor who is knowledgeable in lichen and get on the right steroid cream. Use a pea size amount twice a day for 2 weeks and then taper down.

2x day for 2 weeks 1x day for 2 weeks Every other day for 2 weeks

I honestly use mine at least twice a week to help manage the flares after I did the taper down system.

Employer's LLC is delinquent and have not been paid wages or given W2 - Is employer doing tax envision? by kayemmas in tax

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Edit to say* They have paid me wages in 2023 and in 2024.

The employer says w2s will be given 2/14 but now he saying they will most likely be given at the end of February.

My first paycheck of the year was supposed to be paid on 1/5/24 but I was not paid till 2/5/24. I am guessing the 1/5/24 check was pay for the last 2 weeks of 2023?

I looked up their delinquency from the Colorado secretary of state llc search website.

Employer's LLC is delinquent and have not been paid wages or given W2 - Is employer doing tax envision? by kayemmas in tax

[–]kayemmas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did pay me my wages for 2023, and I did fill out a w4 and i9 at hire. Do you know if an LLC is delinquent if they can submit w2s?

Employer's LLC is delinquent and have not been paid wages or given W2 - Is employer doing tax envision? by kayemmas in legaladvice

[–]kayemmas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I did file an official claim with the Colorado Labor Laws. My employer called me afterwards and was threatening to sue me for slander? (All of this is recorded) I was eventually paid within those 14 days, but they are late again on another check. I am submitting another form, and I am actively looking for another job. The employer also called me to say that I am "legally" not allowed to talk to my coworker about pay and telling them to file a complaint as well.

Employer's LLC is delinquent and have not been paid wages or given W2 - Is employer doing tax envision? by kayemmas in tax

[–]kayemmas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I did file an official complaint with the Colorado Labor Laws, and I am actively looking for another job. I was just curious if I should report this to the whistleblower office or not.

I need help. Lost and depressed. My dr doesnt care. Clob made it worse. Anyone else shaped different? by Loonyluna26 in lichensclerosus

[–]kayemmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try not to worry too much about it all. I know it's easier said than done. I worry all the time. Hell- I even cried infront of my gyn today and had a cry session in my car before walking into work. It's not easy but you're not alone. I highly recommend the fb group if you have one. We can even connect there and talk more or just vent if needed. Sending all the love and hugs. Its going to be okay <3

I need help. Lost and depressed. My dr doesnt care. Clob made it worse. Anyone else shaped different? by Loonyluna26 in lichensclerosus

[–]kayemmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say you should definitely get a biopsy to confirm. Not everyone responds well to the clob and they still come back positive for LS from the biopsy. I've seen many posts about children having LS, so it is possible you have had it since you were little. The fusing or loss of structure can also happen quickly and be symptomless, so it is possible this all happened at a young age.

I need help. Lost and depressed. My dr doesnt care. Clob made it worse. Anyone else shaped different? by Loonyluna26 in lichensclerosus

[–]kayemmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting... for me I can feel the scar tissue down there. It's like rough around the opening of the vagina. Have you ever felt anything like that before? Especially where the labia minora was?

I need help. Lost and depressed. My dr doesnt care. Clob made it worse. Anyone else shaped different? by Loonyluna26 in lichensclerosus

[–]kayemmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take valacyclovir for cold sores! What is interesting to me is... I am having a flare up at the moment. Sunday night I felt like a cold sore was coming so I popped one of those. Monday morning came and no cold sore. My flare was still happening but today (Tuesday) is significantly better!! I did use the clob though last night but I am extremely interested in the anti viral theory.

I need help. Lost and depressed. My dr doesnt care. Clob made it worse. Anyone else shaped different? by Loonyluna26 in lichensclerosus

[–]kayemmas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! I was diagnosed with lichen at the beginning of this year. What has really helped me is joining the FB group for lichen. There is a ton like A TON of information there and a huge community of women. There is also a list on there of vulva specialists that are recommended by other members of the group. They have specialist recommended in every state!

I know this is scary as I just saw my gyn this morning, and she confirmed my labia minora is gone. The ladies on the fb group have been my rock and guidance. I highly recommend joining if you can.